cancer ♋

One thing I noticed about being a cancer, and this is gonna be the big fat truth is that, yes, we want love. We truly do want love. But sometimes when we get love, it scares us. We're like, whoa, wait, hold on, wait a second. Um, do you really, really know me like that? For you to be giving me all this love and saying all these things to me? So we tend to kind of pull back and we're like, hold on, let me assess. And we go into our shell. And then maybe we start pushing that person away because we're just not sure, right? Because we know that when we love, we love hard, and we mean it with all of our soul. And so when you're coming at us and you're giving us all this love very early, even though we tend to do that, we feel like, like, I can't breathe. Hold on, give me a second. I need to figure this out. I need to really understand if I'm really feeling this way. You know what I mean? So, yeah, we can get into our heads sometimes when you come very strong at us. And maybe that's why we leave people a little bit confused because you're like, well, isn't that how you were acting with me? Isn't that what you wanted? And of course it is. Yes, it is. But hold your horses, because we need to understand what we're feeling. Only because we know when we're in, we're in. You know what I'm saying?