@zaralovesxo — 18x breakout

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The creator shares a personal story about receiving abuse from an ex-partner, detailing instances where he chose to record her distress instead of offering help. She expresses her frustration and disappointment with his actions, highlighting the emotional toll it has taken.

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1Introduction to the situation
2Description of the ex-partner's unhelpful actions
3Creator's emotional state and regret
4Ex-partner's retaliatory actions
5Creator's resolve and current support system
6Reflection on forgiveness and support

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Read the next slide ... Bit of background on the snippet of a video that I'm now receiving abuse about. I rang him for help. HELP! He told me he was on his way all the while he was outside my house listening to me struggling and chose to record rather than intervene If he actually thought there was any kind of risk at all instead of sitting outside and allowing it to continue he should of done exactly what I asked and HELPED me I recognised that I wasn't feeling ok and asked for help, he made out that's what his intentions were Instead he sent that time recording mess screaming. I'm not proud of how I acted. AT ALL - I'm not proud or being like that in front of my little girl I'm disgusted to be honest but that's why I've asked for help from him. Instead this is what I got, and this isn't the first time I've asked for help and been in an erratic state and he's filmed me instead of supporting me. If you haven't been through it you wouldn't know. So don't comment. Obviously the things that were said about here were not nice and I was obviously not thinking straight but he still left, my house without her and filmed me when inside my house aswel instead of helping me, helping her or taking her to nursery like he said he would. He left her in my care all day and all night. Only today when I said I wouldn't take the posts down did he then try and remove her from my nursery whilst she was napping and phone SS to report me. All more than 24 hours after that happened and also ONLY after I said I wouldn't take the posts down. So carry on with the abusive comments on my posts. Carry on slandering the way I behaved I deserve it. But I also deserved some help in that moment, which I will be getting now. Bunni is fast asleep in my care & my kids have now just had a visit from the police as a result - they have no concerns. They are going to HELP. Exactly as my ex intended btw... knock someone down when they are already struggling. It's been a pattern and was only posted because it wouldn't remove the truths I had already put out there. I stood my ground knowing he was going to post that anyway. Imagine being expected to forgive the man who made you a mother, but also your motherhood ten times harder than it ever needed to be. The same person who should have supported you is the one who caused the most damage. And somehow, you're still the one expected to be understanding.

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Bit of background on the snippet of a video that I'm now receiving abuse about. I rang him for help. HELP! He told me he was on his way all the while he was outside my house listening to me struggling and chose to record rather than intervene If he actually thought there was any kind of risk at all instead of sitting outside and allowing it to continue he should of done exactly what I asked and HELPED me I recognised that I wasn't feeling ok and asked for help, he made out that's what his intentions were Instead he spent that time recording me screaming. I'm not proud of how I acted AT ALL - I'm not proud of being like that in front of my little girl I'm disgusted to be honest but that's why I asked for help from him. Instead this is what I got, and this isn't the first time I've asked for help and been in an erratic state and he's filmed me instead of supporting me. If you haven't been through it you wouldn't know. So don't comment. Obviously the things that were said about here were not nice and I was obviously not thinking straight but he still left my house without her and filmed me when inside my house aswel instead of helping me, helping her or taking her to nursery like he said he would. He left her in my care all day and all night, Only today when I said I wouldn't take the posts down did he then try and remove her from her nursery whilst she was napping and phone Ss to report me. All more than 24 hours after that happened and also ONLY after I said I wouldn't take the posts down, So carry on with the abusive comments on my posts. Carry on slandering the way I behaved I deserve it. But I also deserved some help in that moment, which I will be getting now, Bunni is fast asleep in my care & my kids have now just had a visit from the police as a result - they have no concerns. They are going to HELP Exactly as my ex intended btw ... knock someone down when they are already struggling. It's been a pattern and was only posted because it wouldn't remove the truths I had already put out there. I stood my ground knowing he was going to post that anyway.