Does Anyone Else Have One of Each?

Can someone explain to me how two children from the same household end up like this? Because my daughter is preparing for her next semester. This girl has a planner and new stickers, a planner, a pens that match her notebook. And meanwhile, my son is about to start trade school today. What do you need? Me nothing. You don't have a bag for your gigantic books, pens for the workbook that you will be writing in. He's planning to show up with two books and a dream. I know my outfit planned. Doesn't have shoes to wear on his first day. Three days from now. One child has probably already reorganized her backpack. In a two-minute conversation, she could spend about $3,000 of she needs, she wants, a need. And the other kid doesn't even have a backpack. He hasn't thought about it. It's all gonna work out because, you know what? There's not one way. Mmm. There are many ways to get to the same result. It's just that sometimes both kids' ways are chaotic. And as a parent, I had to figure out, I help them both synergize, right? In the middle. The other. It's just a different way.