The fact is

The fact is that the more responsibility that you take on, the more in control you feel. And the more control, the greater freedom you experience, especially in your own mind. When you feel completely free, you make better decisions and you do more of the things that you really want to do. Here's a great discovery. Negative emotions are the root cause of our problems and unhappiness. And all negative emotions tend to be caused by the tendency to blame other people or situations for our problems. Fully 99% of all our difficulties and problems exist only because we are able to blame someone or something else for them. The instant that you stop blaming your negative emotions begin disappearing. What is the antidote to blaming? It's simple since your mind can only hold one thought at a time, either positive or negative. You can override all your negative emotions, eliminate the tendency to blame and become angry, simply by saying the words firmly, I am responsible.