Something I learned being 26 years old is

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The creator offers relatable and actionable advice on managing confusion and decision-making, framed within a personal narrative and a touch of humor, which resonates with a broad audience seeking self-improvement tips.

Summary

The creator shares a piece of advice learned at 26: when feeling confused, first focus on self-care (eating, getting ready) and then remove confusing elements from one's life. She emphasizes that God has a plan and confusion is from the enemy. She also advises against making decisions when hungry, suggesting to eat first and then decide.

Structure

1Self-care as a first step for confusion
2Removing confusing elements from life
3Trusting in God's plan
4The enemy causes confusion
5Don't make decisions when hungry
6Eat first, then decide

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Body kinda hitting since I done started focusing back on my weight gain #bigsisteradvice #yap #startover #gym

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Body kinda hitting since I done started focusing back on my weight gain #bigsisteradvice #yap #startover #gym

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Something I learned being 26 years old is that anytime I'm confused and overwhelmed and I don't know what's going on, I check myself first. I make sure that I'm taking care of my body, I'm eating right, I'm getting up and getting ready every day. And then if I still feel confused, I start removing everything that's confusing. If I don't know where you stand in my life, gone. If I don't know what this, what I'm doing with this, you know, career path, I don't know why I'm here with this job or whatever, gone. Leaving it because my God is not a God of confusion. I will not sit around here wondering what's going on when I got a God that already had a full blown plan for my life. And all I got to do is ask him. Yes. You confused? It's the enemy involved. Give rid of it. Whatever it is. And for my girls, don't make no decision while you're hungry. Eat first and then decide. Because I get hangry and I get stuck and everybody is the enemy and don't know nobody needs to be the fucker around me and I need to be all alone by myself. All time. I just needed a little tail with a sweet treat and a Coca-Cola. That's it. That's all I needed. So eat. And then decide.