My abusive ex tried to come to my home yesterday.

My abusive ex tried to come to my home yesterday. I've already sent this man multiple cease and desist. When I got the email, um, I completely ignored the email. I contacted my lawyer and I contacted the police. I let my family and friends know. The next day he emailed me again saying that he was gonna come over. I contacted the police, the police told me to tell him explicitly, do not come to my place, do not come anywhere near me, my child, my father, anybody. The police said there's basically nothing they can do unless he shows up and does something. I don't want to be one of those women that y'all read about in the news and then everybody was like, oh my god, somebody should have done something. What I am is afraid of this man. I want y'all to think about how long I've been making content. I work with some of the biggest brands in the world. Do you think I would put my reputation, my image, my business on the line over a man? I'm not going to do that. Ever. In true abuser fashion, this man tried to weaponize the court system against me. He told the court system that I was the one financially abusing him, even though he was my employer, he was the one writing my checks. He told them that I was the one physically abusing him, provided zero evidence. And then when we finally went to court, he didn't even show up. And then on the blogs and the websites, they're saying that I didn't show up. Complete madness. I am being harassed, stalked and lied on. Imagine being with someone 10 years, you helped raise their children, helped start their business, and then they do this shit to you. He tried to weaponize the court system against me. He told the court system that I was the one financially abusing him, even though he was my employer, he was the one writing my checks. He told them that I was the one physically abusing him, provided zero evidence. And then when we finally went to court, he didn't even show up. And then on the blogs and the websites, they're saying that I didn't show up. Complete madness. I am being harassed, stalked and lied on. Imagine being with someone 10 years, you helped raise their children, helped start their business, and then they do this shit to you.