Why Are you Stalking me?

@ruthyandthebrain

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Why it worked

The video likely resonated due to its dramatic narrative of online harassment and personal vindication, tapping into common themes of betrayal and the fight for truth in the digital age. The creator's direct and confrontational style, coupled with the raw emotional appeal of discussing past abuse, likely drove engagement and shares.

Summary

The creator details an ongoing cyberstalking situation involving an ex-fiancé's new girlfriend and her friends, who allegedly spread personal information on blogs. She explains how she identified one of the anonymous accounts and the subsequent online drama, asserting her right to speak out about her experiences and welcoming legal action to expose the truth.

Structure

1Introduction of the alleged stalker and her friends.
2Explanation of the creator's actions to identify the stalker.
3The online confrontation and accusations.
4The creator's defense and challenge to legal action.
5Reflection on the past abuse and the irony of the situation.

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TRIGGER WARNING: I’m being gang stalked and cyber bullied. It’s the same group of people since February of this year! #ruthillea #makeuptutorial

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Why Are you Stalking me? MEET ARIEL, A BITCH ASS BITCH THAT I DON'T KNOW. AND A GROUP OF WOMEN HAVE BEEN GANG STALKING ME SINCE ABOUT MARCH OF THIS YEAR MARCH OF THIS YEAR BEHIND MY EX FIANCE, A NIGGA THAT I'M NO LONGER FUCKING WITH AND DON'T EVEN WANT. BOOM!!! MONITORING EVERY SINGLE THING I DO MY MEDICAL HISTORY, MY FINANCIAL INFORMATION. A LOT OF THIS INFORMATION IS BEING FED TO THEM BY MY EX FIANCE. ALLEGEDLY, ONE OF THE ANONYMOUS ACCOUNT IS MY EX FIANCE'S NEW GIRLFRIEND. ALLEGEDLY, HER AND HER BEST FRIENDS ARE THE RINGLEADERS OF THESE BLOGS THAT THEY ARE REPORTING ON ME ABOUT. I'VE COLLECTED EVIDENCE PROVING THAT ARIEL WAS ONE OF THE ANONYMOUS ACCOUNTS ON LIPSTICK ALLEY. I MADE AN ANONYMOUS VIDEO SAYING I FOUND THE IDENTITY OF ONE OF THE PEOPLE. I DIDN'T SAY ARIEL'S NAME, DIDN'T POST HER PICTURE, DIDN'T POST A SCREEN NAME, NOTHING. ARIEL DECIDED TO COME ON TO MY POST ABOUT THE PEOPLE STALKING AND ADMIT SHE HAS SELF IDENTIFIED AND SAID, HI, IT'S ME, NOW THAT IT'S GOING VIRAL THAT SHE'S PARTICIPATING IN CYBER STALKING ME AND GANG HARASSMENT, NOW ARIEL'S LEAVING ALL THESE WILD COMMENTS SAYING I'M DRAGGING IT, AND SHE DOESN'T KNOW MY EX FIANCE'S GIRLFRIEND OR ME OR THE SITUATION. BUT IF YOU, IF THAT'S TRUE, ARIEL. WHY DID YOU GET SO OFFENDED AND WHY DID YOU FEEL SO WHEN I MADE A VIDEO SAYING I IDENTIFIED ONE OF THE ANONYMOUS WHY DID YOU FEEL COMPELLED TO SPEAK UP AND SAY YOU WAS ONE OF THE UGLY BITCHES STALKING ME? AND THEN WHY DO YOU GUYS ALWAYS WANNA RUN TO RUTH IS WEAPONIZING HER FOLLOWERS? NO, BITCH. MY FOLLOWERS AREN'T STUPID. THEY CAN PUT TWO AND TWO TOGETHER. AND IF I'M LYING, I WELCOME YOU TO SUE ME FOR DEFAMATION. BECAUSE YOU KNOW WHAT HAPPENS DURING THERE'S THIS THING CALLED DISCOVERY, WHERE MY LAWYERS AND YOUR LAWYERS GET TO SUBPOENA WEBSITES, BANK ACCOUNTS, ALL KINDS OF SHIT. YOUR CELL PHONE. WE GET TO SEE WHAT YOU'VE REALLY BEEN UP SO I WELCOME A LAWSUIT BECAUSE WE'LL REALLY GET TO THE BOTTOM OF THIS SHIT. WHAT'S REALLY DISTURBING TO ME IS THAT IT TOOK YEARS FOR ME TO FINALLY COME OUT AND DISCUSS THE ABUSE THAT I WAS SUFFERING AT THE HANDS OF MY EX FIANCE. WOMEN DID? THEY WENT TO THE BLOG AND THEY ACCUSED ME OF BEING THE THEY VICTIM BLAMED AND SHAMED ME. AND IT'S JUST SO CRAZY BECAUSE THESE VERY WOMEN WERE SUPPORTING MEG THE STALLION. TALKING ABOUT HOW THE TORY LANE SITUATION WAS FUCKED UP. AND HERE I AM, A REAL LIFE WOMAN SAYING, CRYING OUT ABOUT THE ABUSE THAT I'M SUFFERING. AND BECAUSE YOU STILL WANNA FUCK YOU WANNA MAKE FUN OF ME AND VICTIM BLAME, BUT YOU'RE A GIRL'S GIRL, BITCH, PLEASE.

Transcript

Meet Ariel, a bitch ass bitch that I don't know. And a group of women have been gang stalking me since about March of this year. March of this year. Behind my ex fiance, a nigga that I'm no longer fucking with and don't even want. Boom!!! Monitoring every single thing I do. My medical history, my financial information. A lot of this information is being fed to them by my ex fiance. Allegedly, one of the anonymous account is my ex fiance's new girlfriend. Allegedly, her and her best friends are the ringleaders of these blogs that they are reporting on me about. I've collected evidence proving that Ariel was one of the anonymous accounts on Lipstick Alley. I made an anonymous video saying I found the identity of one of the people. I didn't say Ariel's name, didn't post her picture, didn't post a screen name, nothing. Ariel decided to come onto my post about the people stalking and admit she has self-identified and said, hi, it's me. Now that it's going viral that she's participating in cyber stalking me and gang harassment. Now Ariel's leaving all these wild comments saying I'm dragging it, and she doesn't know my ex fiance's girlfriend or me or the situation. But if you, if that's true, Ariel. Why did you get so offended and why did you feel so when I made a video saying I identified one of the anonymous. Why did you feel compelled to speak up and say you was one of the ugly bitches stalking me? And then why do you guys always wanna run to Ruth is weaponizing her followers? No, bitch. My followers aren't stupid. They can put two and two together. And if I'm lying, I welcome you to sue me for defamation. Because you know what happens during there's this thing called discovery, where my lawyers and your lawyers get to subpoena websites, bank accounts, all kinds of shit. Your cell phone. We get to see what you've really been up. So I welcome a lawsuit because we'll really get to the bottom of this shit. What's really disturbing to me is that it took years for me to finally come out and discuss the abuse that I was suffering at the hands of my ex fiance. Women did? They went to the blog and they accused me of being the they victim blamed and shamed me. And it's just so crazy because these very women were supporting Meg the stallion. Talking about how the Tory Lane situation was fucked up. And here I am, a real life woman saying, crying out about the abuse that I'm suffering. And because you still wanna fuck, you wanna make fun of me and victim blame, but you're a girl's girl, bitch, please.