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Classy women don’t need to announce they’re classy. You can tell by how they move. 1. Speak less. Say more. 2. Stop yelling to win arguments. 3. Never beg for attention. 4. Learn to sit comfortably in silence. 5. Keep private things PRIVATE. 6. Stop telling everyone your business. 7. Don’t gossip for entertainment. 8. Know how to say NO gracefully. 9. Never embarrass yourself for male attention. 10. Don’t compete with other women. 11. Be on time. 12. Keep your word. 13. Return what you borrow. 14. Say thank you. 15. Apologize when you’re wrong. 16. Don’t make excuses for everything. 17. Learn proper table manners. 18. Dress for the occasion. 19. Keep your clothes immaculate. 20. Smell GOOD. 21. Read books. 22. Know what’s happening in the world. 23. Learn how to hold an intelligent conversation. 24. Stop making every conversation about yourself. 25. Ask better questions. 26. Develop hobbies outside relationships. 27. Learn how money works. 28. Invest in your skills. 29. Build your own income. 30. Have goals nobody can take from you. 31. Don’t argue with disrespectful people. 32. Don’t react to every provocation. 33. Leave when the environment becomes disrespectful. 34. Don’t send angry paragraphs. 35. Stop posting indirect messages. 36. Don’t chase people who aren’t choosing you. 37. Don’t tolerate crumbs because you’re afraid to leave. 38. Don’t confuse attention with love. 39. Don’t reveal your entire strategy. 40. Let your results introduce you. 41. Treat waiters and cleaners with respect. 42. Don’t be rude just because you have money. 43. Put your phone away when someone is talking to you. 44. Stop complaining about everything. 45. Don’t make every problem public. 46. Learn to receive compliments without arguing. 47. Be confident without needing to dominate. 48. Be generous without performing generosity. 49. Have standards without looking down on people. 50. Make your character more beautiful than your appearance. Being classy isn’t looking rich. It’s having self-control, standards, manners, intelligence and self-respect. Because anybody can buy an expensive handbag. Not everybody can control their mouth, emotions, spending, ego and impulses. THAT is expensive energy. 🖤 Save this. Send it to a woman who’s becoming the best version of herself.