The video resonates because it taps into a universal experience of feeling hurt or disregarded in relationships due to a perceived lack of consideration. The creator's personal reflection and relatable examples make the message impactful and shareable.
Summary
The speaker discusses how a lack of consideration is a primary reason for friendships and relationships ending. She emphasizes that true love and care are demonstrated through considering others in one's decisions, and that a failure to do so, despite verbal affirmations, is a sign of insincerity and leads to hurt.
Structure
1Lack of consideration ruins friendships
2Consideration is the reason people are left alone
3As a Pisces and people-pleaser, the speaker would go to war for loved ones
4The speaker draws the line at lack of consideration
5The speaker considers others in her decisions
6Lack of consideration is the rarest form of love
7Parting ways due to lack of consideration
8Forgiveness vs. forgetting lack of consideration
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Original caption
Without fail this happens everytime #lackofconsideration #friendships #losingfriends #consideration
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On-screen text
Lack of consideration will ruin friendships
Transcript
Lack of consideration will ruin friendships. Consideration will be the reason that you leave a lot of people alone. Me personally, being the Pisces that I am, being the people pleaser that I am, I will go to war for the people that I love. I will give the shirt off my back, anything you want, you can have. It has nothing that I have that you can't have. There's absolutely nothing. I will let you do anything, pretty much damn near anything, right? When it comes to lack of consideration and that is where I draw the line. And I don't know why that is. I also think it's because I'm the first born, I'm the first born daughter. When it comes to lack of consideration, you can do so much to me. You can do so much to me, whether that's a man or a woman, whether that's friendships, boyfriends, relationships, anything, right? You can do anything to me. But when it comes to lack of consideration, that is where I draw the line. And I can no longer serve you. This is where we part ways because I would have never done that to you. And that's what it comes down to. It's not rocket science. We don't need to call Bill Nye to get an answer on this. It's not rocket science. I would have never done that to you because I consider you in my situations and in my decisions that you are considered because I love and care about you. I don't think someone that tells you they love and care about you, but they don't consider you in the decisions that they make, and there's no consideration, I don't think they love and care about you. I think they're lying to you. And I've had a lot of people in my life tell me, I love you and I care about you. But their choices and decisions don't consider me at all. And because they're not considering me, it's hurting me. They're choices are hurting me. I would have never done that to you. So why are you doing that to me? And I feel like as you get older, I'm 29 years old, I'm almost 30, I've learned this in my 20s for sure. And this is why me and so many people have parted ways. It comes down to lack of consideration. And that's all it is. You don't consider me in your choices, and your decisions, I can't consider you in mine. Because I'm considering you. Because that is the rarest, rawest form of love. In my opinion, is consideration. If they're considering you in all of their choices and decisions throughout their day, I think that's the rarest, rawest form of love you can have. And that's my personal opinion. And that creator was like, you will learn, she said she was almost 40. She said, lack of consideration will be the reason you part ways. And I couldn't agree more. Because you don't have so many things you can do to me. I'll look over. I'm a forgiver. I don't hate anyone. I love everybody. My little Pisces self. I can forgive and forget. Forgive, never forget. A lot of things. But lack of consideration is not one of them. And that will be the straw that breaks the camel's back every time.
