Post by @wildandfeminineera

Not ideal that my first dating experience after marriage turned out to be a catfish, and ngl I was initially devastated when I found out because I had so much misguided hope, and I felt so stupid that i’d ignored a *lot* of red flags. (Also look up Limerence because it was a hyper focus obsession for me and I’d never heard this term before!) But I really think the universe sent me this experience for a reason. As a reminder of who I am. As a reminder that I don’t need a man to validate me. As a reminder that I DO NOT accept breadcrumbs. I now think it’s the perfect first dating experience tbh. I will be accepting nothing less than the effort I deserve moving forward. And also I know that I am sexy and beautiful without a man to tell me that. Queen energy only moving forward