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Why do some ladies see a boyfriend as a financial provider? My audience, let us speak with wisdom and without insult. Some ladies were raised with the belief that a man must provide for a woman. Some are genuinely facing hardship. Some enter relationships carrying financial struggles. Others have been influenced by social media where love is measured by gifts, transfers, expensive dates and designer items. And mindset that if a man does not spend money on you, then he does not love you. My daughters, do not confuse generosity with responsibility. A generous man can help you, but he is not automatically responsible for funding your entire life. Remember that when money becomes the only proof of love, affection can easily turn into transaction. If a relationship begins with greed and entitlement, problems will surely grow later. Today it is airtime, tomorrow it is rent. Next tomorrow it is the whole family budget. My daughters, have your own ambition. A boyfriend can assist you, but do not turn him into your personal bank. My sons, Support your woman when you can, but do not borrow money to impress her. A relationship supposed to be mutual, not one person constantly giving while the other only receives. Dear ladies, genuinely love your boyfriend, not his pocket. And avoid comparison.