3 things every guy should never do on a first date

1. Ask questions like it’s an interview. What do you do, where are you from, do you have siblings. None of it is bad. All of it is forgettable. She’s answered those exact questions four times this month and she remembers none of the guys. 2. Agree with everything she says. You think you’re being easy to be around. She reads it as having no position of your own. And a man with no position is a man she can’t be nervous around — which means she can’t be attracted either. 3. Tell her you had a great time. Right at the end, at the door. It feels honest. What it does is hand her the outcome before she’s decided anything herself. She walks away knowing exactly where she stands with you and never has to think about it again. Now here’s the thing nobody says. Avoiding all three still doesn’t get you a second date. Because these are just the loud versions of one underlying problem — everything you do is designed to get a good reaction from her. She’s not consciously scoring you. She just leaves knowing whether you were performing or not, and that’s the whole verdict. 👉 There’s one thing you do differently across the whole date that changes what she leaves with. It’s not a line, not a topic, not a location. It changes how she remembers the night, and it’s why some guys get texted first before they’ve even got home. Men who have it stop having good dates that go nowhere. She goes from polite goodbye to asking when she’s seeing you again. Not in a month. That same night. And you stop caring as much, right as she starts caring more. I’ve had more messages about this than anything else I’ve ever posted. Guys telling me the whole thing shifted for them. Some of them within hours. Not weeks. Hours. It’s called The Royal Game Method. Takes 30 seconds to understand. Works even if your last three dates went nowhere. Link in bio 👇