If u date down as a guy it will never work btw

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The video likely resonated with viewers due to its controversial and provocative take on dating dynamics, tapping into common insecurities and desires related to perceived attractiveness and relationship success.

Summary

The creator advises men against dating women they perceive as being 'below' them in attractiveness, stating it will never work out. He suggests men should aim for the most attractive women they can find, as settling for less will lead to regret and FOMO.

Structure

1Introduction of the dating 'rule'
2Explanation of why dating 'down' fails
3The ideal partner is the 'prettiest' for the individual
4Consequence of not aiming high: FOMO

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If u date down as a guy it will never work btw

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Like, if you're gonna date down as a guy, it will never work, btw. Like, you should just go after like the prettiest girl you've ever seen. Like, if you're gonna date down as a guy, it will never work. Even if she's objectively pretty to most people. Like, it has to be the absolute best, most prettiest girl for you. Like, literally, if it's not, you'll probably date her and you'll probably be like, man, you'll have that FOMO, you know? Even though there's tons of pretty women, you just want to have the person that's like, prettiest for you. Like, it's not gonna work.