@garyvee — 30x breakout

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How do you stop

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Why it worked

The video taps into a universal fear of judgment and offers a direct, albeit challenging, solution. The relatable struggle of seeking external validation and the concise advice from a well-known figure like Gary Vee likely resonated with viewers.

Summary

Gary Vaynerchuk explains to Mel Robbins that to stop caring about what other people think, one must practice by putting themselves out there and accepting ridicule and judgment. He states that many people are too afraid of external validation and have become "too good of students" who rely on external feedback like grades.

Structure

1Question about stopping caring what others think
2Answer: Practice
3How to practice: by doing it
4Consequences of practice: ridicule, judgment, pushback
5Reason for fear: being "too good of students" seeking external validation

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The more and more and more you take risks, you have vulnerable conversations, you try new things and fail in front of friends, you ask for peoples help even though many will say “no”… You see .. most of you that are insecure allow all of this to play out in your head … putting yourself “out there” allows you to have a lot of “no’s” and a lot of “failures” this allows you to get comfortable with them, this allows you to realize peoples judgement on your risks and losses don’t mean shit .. this is the simple framework that many can start leaning into … I want this for you … oh and when you put yourself out there, you find things you’re good at… and that too contributes ;) my friends, if you lack confidence, it’s time to change how you’ve been going about it ☀️❤️