Post by @millygoldsmith

some will leave…but some will stay…chapter 15📖 friendship breakups has always been such a hard one for me. I guess maybe because my relationship with my friends is the only form of ‘chosen relationship’ I have in my life. And so when those relationships end, especially without any conversation, it’s the most confusing heartbreak. The thing is, I’ve been on both ends of it. Sometimes i’ve moved away from friendships that don’t serve me without initiating any sort of ‘break up’ conversation, so I’m no saint at all. And it makes me wonder why friendships breakups don’t require any sort of clarification the way romantic relationships do? When I reflect on the friendships that ended without my choice, I realise how much impact it’s still had on me. I’ll think about certain friends I’m no longer in contact with more often than I want to admit. Wondering if I did or said anything that might have caused them to stop replying to me? Or if it’s just one of those cliche “it’s not you it’s me” type things. I don’t know if I’ll ever know, which I think is why these sorts of breakups linger for a lot longer than any other kind. Anyway, I explore a lot of themes around it in my book ‘Things I Told My Notes App’, the Sunday Times Bestseller!!! A book so many of you have grabbed off the shelves and read in one day because you couldn’t put it down. Genuinely still baffles me knowing the world has read my deepest secrets and confessions, but alas, it’s helped me get it all off my chest xxx Enjoy🎬📖💋 Disclaimer: the girl in this vid, Sask, is very much still in my life. I just had to drag her in one of my videos bdcsuse imagine if I asked an actual ex-bestfriend (would’ve been jokes tbh)