GIVING WOMEN MONEY

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The video likely resonated by tapping into common male anxieties about dating and financial investment, offering a contrarian perspective that prioritizes self-improvement over superficial displays of wealth. The direct, assertive tone and relatable advice likely encouraged engagement.

Summary

The speaker, Coach Nonnie, advises men against spending money on women solely to gain their attention, especially when single. She emphasizes that this money would be better invested in personal growth, future goals, or skills development. Instead of using money to impress, men should focus on their character, humor, and personality.

Structure

1Introduction: Giving women money is a waste
2Investment in self: Upgrade skills, qualifications, education
3Future goals: Business, car, children's future
4Context: Two-income household economy
5Mistake: Spending money on women for attention
6Alternative: Invest in self, character, personality
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GIVING WOMEN MONEY Coach Nonnie IS A WASTE OF MONEY YOU SHOULD NEVER EVER BE GOING AROUND GIVING WOMEN MONEY AS A MAN I ALWAYS TELL YOU THIS YOU SHOULD ALWAYS BE INVESTING IN YOUR FUTURE YOU MUST ALWAYS LOOKING TO UPGRADE YOUR SKILLS UPGRADE YOUR QUALIFICATIONS SIGN UP FOR ONLINE COURSES YOU SHOULD ALWAYS BE LOOKING TO FINANCE MAYBE YOUR DON'T KNOW YOUR MASTER'S DEGREE TO START A BUSINESS TO UPGRADE TO GET A BETTER CAR IN THE FUTURE SAVING UP FOR YOUR FUTURE CHILDREN WE LIVE IN A TWO INCOME HOUSEHOLD ECONOMY IN TODAY'S WORLD BOTH MEN AND WOMEN ARE WORKING AS A MAN IF YOU ALWAYS PUT YOURSELF IN A SITUATION WHERE YOU ARE SPENDING MONEY ON A WOMAN JUST TO GET HER ATTENTION YOU ARE WASTING HAVE BEEN PUT INTO BETTER THINGS IN THE FUTURE THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT YOU ARE DOING MONEY THAT WOULD HAVE BEEN USEFUL UM IN THE COMING YEARS BUT YOU ARE WASTING IT ON RIGHT NOW ME WRONG I'M NOT TALKING ABOUT UM GIVING YOUR WIFE MONEY OR GIVING A WOMAN THAT LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP WITH NO THE FACT THAT A SINGLE MAN AND YOU ARE MEETING DIFFERENT WOMEN AND YOU'RE TRYING KNOW THEM BIGGEST MISTAKES THAT YOU CAN DO IS TO GO AROUND IMPRESSING WOMEN WITH MONEY INSTEAD OF USING YOUR CHARACTER YOUR HUMOUR YOUR PERSONALITY AND I ACTUALLY WANNA HEAR WHAT ABOUT WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT YOU THINK IN THE COMMENT SECTION DEFINITELY LIKE THIS VIDEO THE ALGORITHM TO SHOW THIS VIDEO TO MORE BROTHERS COACH NANI HERE WHO WANT TO UNDERSTAND WOMEN BETTER

Transcript

Giving women money is a waste of money you should never ever be going around giving women money as a man. I always tell you this, you should always be investing in your future. You must always be looking to upgrade your skills, upgrade your qualifications, sign up for online courses. You should always be looking to finance, maybe your future studies, I don't know, your master's degree, to start a business, to upgrade, to get a better car in the future, saving up for your future children. We live in a two-income household economy in today's world. Both men and women are working. As a man, if you always put yourself in a situation where you are spending money on a woman just to get her attention, you are wasting money that could have been put into better things in the future. That is exactly what you are doing. Money that would have been useful, um, in the coming years, but you are wasting it on right now. Don't get me wrong, I'm not talking about, um, giving your wife money or giving a woman that long-term relationship with no. I'm talking about the fact that if you're a single man and you are meeting different women and you're trying to know them, one of the biggest mistakes that you can do is to go around impressing women with money instead of using your character, your humour, your personality. And I actually wanna hear what about what I'm talking about. You think in the comment section. Definitely like this video. The algorithm to show this video to more brothers. Coach Nani here. Who want to understand women better.