When you break a trust, you as the one who broke the trust, you'll have to do extraordinary things to gain that trust back.

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The video addresses a high-emotion, relatable pain point with clear, actionable advice, establishing the creator's authority before naturally transitioning into a promotion for his podcast.

Summary

A pastor provides advice on how to rebuild trust in a relationship after a betrayal, emphasizing that it must be earned through patience and consistent right actions. The video serves as a promotional clip for his podcast, Insights With PT.

Structure

1Defining the necessity of earning back trust
2Advising patience during the testing phase
3Emphasizing the need for consistent right actions
4Offering a spiritual perspective on forgiveness
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Watch the latest full episode of Insights With PT Podcast “When Best Friends Cross the Line - Emotional Affairs, Boundaries & Trust” out now on YouTube, Apple Podcast, Audible & Spotify.

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Rebuilding Trust After Betrayal WHEN YOU BREAK A TRUST YOU AS THE ONE WHO BROKE THE TRUST, YOU WILL HAVE TO DO EXTRAORDINARY THINGS TO GAIN THAT TRUST BACK YOU CAN'T TAKE IT BACK, YOU EARN IT SO, IF YOU ARE THE ONE THAT BROKE THE TRUST, YOU CAN'T BE TELLING ME THAT OH IT'S TOO LONG THAT YOU HAVE NOT TRUSTED, PLEASE CAN YOU JUST RELAX YOU BROKE THE TRUST BECAUSE YOU KNOW THAT IT'S NOT GONNA HAPPEN AGAIN THEN YOU TAKE YOUR TIME MANY TIMES YOU WILL BE TESTED AND YOU HAVE TO PASS THE TEST IT CAN BE VERY UNCOMFORTABLE FOR YOU BUT IT'S OKAY YOU ARE THE ONE WHO BROKE THE TRUST YOU MUST BE READY FOR THIS KIND OF CONSEQUENCE BUT IT'S NOT AN AUTOMATIC THING YOU MUST EARN IT BACK SO JUST CHILL AND KEEP ON DOING WHAT IS RIGHT AND IN DUE TIME I BELIEVE THAT AS YOU CONTINUE TO PRAY ALSO GOD WILL MINISTER TO YOUR SPOUSE AND THEY ARE ABLE TO FORGIVE AND MOVE ON IT CAN TAKE TIME WATCH/LISTEN NOW INSIGHTS WITH PT Listen on Apple Podcasts

Transcript

When you break a trust, you as the one who broke the trust, you'll have to do extraordinary things to gain that trust back. You can't take it back, you earn it. So, if you are the one that broke the trust, you can't be telling me that oh it's too long that you have not trusted. Please, can you just relax? You broke the trust. Because you know that it's not going to happen again, then you take your time. Many times you will be tested and you have to pass the test. It can be very uncomfortable for you, but it's okay. You are the one who broke the trust. You must be ready for this kind of consequence. But it's not an automatic thing. You must earn it back. So just chill and keep on doing what is right and in due time, I believe that as you continue to pray also, God will minister to your spouse and they are able to forgive and move on. It can take time.