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my table, my terms… but you’re welcome to join me if you’re good😉 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐩𝐢𝐬𝐭 𝐓𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐬💭 Day 140 of 365 Part 1: Make people reconsider their tone with you🗣️ Yep, not your average therapist here again to tell you….I am, I’m going to be here for you and work my hardest to guide and teach you “how to be inconvenient to fuck with.” Sounds like a good book title, yeah?📖 So PSA, if you’re not ready for this, if this is not something you like to hear, if you do not like to address the big pink elephant🩷🐘 in the room, then I may not be the therapist for you and that is so totally ok babes!🫶🏼 I’m sure you all know that you can and may go through many therapists to find just the right one. You choose someone that aligns with you, fits your vibe, your energy and your life experiences.✨ Coming from someone who’s heart is a little too good sometimes, has allowed herself to be very f*ck-able with, I have been screwed over, f*cked with and taken advantage by those near and far…and I wouldn’t change the life experiences for anything! We all know this story and well, what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger, right?💪🏼 We cannot and will not allow the world to change our hearts and I am still the sweetest, kindest, happy, I will give the shirt off my back to a stranger human but act up, act funny, be weird with me, and I will switch that shit up, call you out and move on like no tomorrrow.🙌🏼 You do not need to allow space anymore for those who treat you in ways that make you feel uncomfortable or disrespected. But also, yes, I will tell you straight up if you’re being a little bitch and need to own your own shit (well, maybe not those exact words) but of course in the safest, kindest, most therapeutic way because really, what kind of therapist would I be if I only enabled you and didn’t help you to recognize your own behaviors?🤔 If you’re still here, stay tuned for part✌🏼… Ta-da…the more you know, the more you grow🌱❤️ ©𝒾𝓃𝒻𝒾𝓃𝒾𝓉ℯ𝓁𝓎𝒽ℴ𝓅ℯ𝒻𝓊𝓁𝓂ℴ𝓂𝓂𝒶𝓍3 ♥︎Not Your Average Therapist #mindset #therapist #coping #boundaries #therapistthoughts