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A woman on here said that the busiest man that she ever dated in her entire life also replied the fastest. And she asked him one time, why do you reply so quickly? And you know what he said? He said, because communication is a form of respect. And if you respect the person, you're going to get back to them as soon as you possibly can. Let that sink in for a little bit. Just for a moment. See, busy is not the problem. Lack of priority is the problem. And yes, he's not going to be on his phone all day with you, but it takes, like, what, maybe 10 seconds to send a little reminder that he actually cares? Maybe a video, a text message, and if you've been dealing with slow replies and disappearing acts for so long, you probably think this is normal. And it's not normal. It's disrespect. Okay? They don't prioritise you, but they act like they do with words when they talk to you. They say that they care when they actually don't. Because they're showing you that they don't care when they don't respond in a reasonable amount of time or give you a heads up if they're gonna be busy with something. He wants to make you feel secure if he cares about you. If he doesn't care about you, he's not gonna wanna make you feel secure because he's not prioritising your feelings. He doesn't care. I can promise you if he's doing that, if he is responding to you in a reasonable amount of time, I can promise you that he does care. And it's that simple.