i have learned to forgive the person yet not let them access my life again.

I have learned to forgive the person yet not let them access my life again. Siguro sasabihin ng iba dito, hindi mo pa siya fully napapatawad kasi meron ka pang baggage. No, it's not like that. Hindi siya ganun. The forgiveness was for me, for myself, para mapakawalan ko na yung sarili ko from the chapter of my life, for me to be able to move forward. Kasi kung hindi ko siya papatawarin, mananatili akong nakakulong dun sa chapter na yun. Hindi ako makakawala. And because we want to move forward, we protect ourselves from letting them access our life again because we love ourselves so much now na hindi na natin hahayaang kapag ka na shatter tayo ay malugmok ulit tayo, na hirap ulit tayo makabangon. To forgive someone and not let them access your life again is a protection for yourself. Kaya hindi ako naniniwala dun sa mga nagsasabing forget kasi how can you forget something of a value na bumuo sayo? Somehow change your perspective about life. Pinalawak nung taong yun yung perspective mo about life and for that we should be thankful too. By forgiving people, you free yourself and you allow yourself to love yourself because you want to see yourself move forward, you want to see yourself win, you want to see yourself smile again.