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What I've learned from being in a healthy relationship.

@madii_811

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The video likely resonated with viewers by offering relatable and aspirational advice on healthy relationships, presented in a personal and engaging way. The numbered list format makes the advice easy to digest and share, while the accompanying visuals of the couple in various settings add a personal touch.

Summary

The video shares six lessons learned from being in a healthy relationship, focusing on a partner's supportive, understanding, and prioritizing nature. It highlights the importance of a partner not making difficult moments about themselves, being open about the relationship publicly, and taking a partner's emotional needs seriously.

Structure

1Introduction to the topic
2Lesson 1: Bare minimum effort and expected gestures
3Lesson 2: Supportive and understanding nature
4Lesson 3: Handling difficult moments
5Lesson 4: Openness and public acknowledgment
6Lesson 5: Prioritizing happiness and financial support
7Lesson 6: Taking triggers seriously and acceptance

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What I've learned from being in a healthy relationship. 1. He's gonna do the bare minimum, not say things like I was gonna do it. Getting flowers and planning days should be expected. 2. He's always gonna be supportive, not bring you down, or yuck your yum. He's gonna be understanding, especially when you're going through hard times. Number three. When you're having a hard moment, he's not gonna make it about him. He's gonna listen to what you have to say and not be defensive about it. Number four. He's not gonna hide you from the world. He's not gonna make excuses for why he can't post you on Instagram. He's going to introduce you to his parents, his family, his friend. No. 5. He's going to know how to prioritize you, whether that's visiting you if you're in a long distance relationship, spending money for you, even if it might seem like a lot to someone else. He's going to prioritise your happiness above all else. Number six. This is for my mentally ill girls. He'll take your triggers very seriously. He won't make you feel like you're too much or not enough. That's what I've learned.