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Okay, hear me out. There's something I've noticed about the most magnetic women in the room, and it has absolutely fuck all to do with how they look. Here is a list of things that they do, only it gets increasingly more controversial, and I've really thought about this. Don't come for me. They never talk about how busy they are, they are not available to everyone, and they have one or two close friends, not 15. They don't overshare, especially early on, and they are completely comfortable disappointing people. Usually they have standards that most people would think are unrealistic, and probably most importantly is they are not chasing anybody, not in business, not in personal life, nobody. I think to me, all of these things share a common thread, and it is that magnetism is really not something that you can perform. To be honest, I think it's what's left over when you stop trying to be liked by everybody. And the women we naturally gravitate towards are the ones who have learned that lesson.
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