the most unlikeable women WIN

the more unlikeable and ignorant you become as a woman, the better your life becomes, especially if you grow up in a traditional or religious household. You will internalize the rules of what a good woman looks like. These are unspoken rules but they are very loud. For example, don't ask for too much. Don't be intimidating. Don't take up too much space. Don't say what you really think. Never outshine anyone, especially not a man. Be overly considerate and well aware of everything, even if it doesn't serve you. This behavior guarantees you a mediocre life, one where you're also filled with resentment for never actually living out who you are in order to appease everyone. But here's the game plan. Step number one, deliberate ignorance. The best way I've heard this put is by my favorite writer Bonesaw, MD. Being open-minded is a PSHOP to keep you small and confused. Your success grows in direct proportion to your willingness to be wrong. When you consider too much, it becomes impossible to do or say anything with the raw conviction required. It creates false wisdom, a hobbit-stand mindset, discombobulation, circular. Makes you feel lost and free yourself from the societal pressure of false politeness. You don't even have to pretend to consider unselfish opinions and advice because you know its intention of being nice. Be ruthless in your discernment. High-quality success only. You are being too polite, considerate of everyone, not yourself. It is evidence of your most impressive thoughts. See ruthlessness in your discernment and what noise you accept, what you believe, who you are, stand on it. Everything else pollution, doesn't matter to you, doesn't exist. Deliberate ignorance. Second, fake politeness of any sort gets thrown out the window. The reason most women lack so much confidence is because they say yes when they mean no. They act warm and cutesy towards people who don't deserve that or they don't feel that way towards, which means you're communicating through your own actions that other needs come before yours. You owe it to yourself to be direct, to be assertive, to be opinionated, to act out how you feel. All of this behavior is robbing yourself of the beautiful life that you deserve. So I'm giving you permission today to stop editing yourself, to make yourself more digestible and show the world who the heck you are.