my non negotiables as a 2nd time mom 🤍

@angelinagat

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The creator effectively leveraged a common and relatable experience (setting boundaries after childbirth) to create engaging content. The direct and clear communication of these boundaries resonated with viewers, likely leading to high engagement and shares as others found the advice valuable or relatable.

Summary

This slideshow outlines a new mother's boundaries for visitors and interactions with her newborn. It emphasizes the importance of respecting her need for privacy, hygiene, and personal space during the postpartum period.

Structure

1Introduction of non-negotiables for a second-time mom
2Request for private time after birth
3No surprise visits, ask first
4No kissing the baby
5Wash hands and sanitize before touching
6Do not visit if sick
7No posting photos of the baby online before parents
8No holding the baby after smoking
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Let’s all normalize respecting moms’ boundaries after birth. I wanna create a safe space for me amd my newborn. Thank you for understanding 🤍 #fyp #MomsofTikTok #pregnancy #creatorsearchinsights #newborn

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my non negotiables as a 2nd time mom 🤍 Kindly give us 3 a little private time with our newborn after I give birth. strictly no surprise visits. please ask ME first. No kissing my baby. Not even on the hands and feet. Please save your gigil. This baby will grow up. JUST WAIT. Wash AND sanitize your hands before touching him. Please wear a mask and change your clothes. We will prepare it for you. If you're sick or recently sick, PLEASE don't visit. This is very common sense. Please have mercy on the baby. No taking photos or posting our baby online before we do first, and ask for permission. PLEASE no holding the baby after smoking (very common sense), just don't visit if you plan on smoking before visiting and while you're here. And please skip strong scents/perfume too. If I say I need rest, I mean it. No unsolicited advice- just support is enough. These aren't rules to push people away.. these are boundaries to protect my baby and my peace. thank you for understanding 🤍