The creator's relatable and honest response to a common question about lifestyle and work, combined with their reflection on personal values and struggles, likely resonated with viewers. The vulnerability and authenticity in their explanation of balancing online presence with personal life created a connection.
Summary
The creator responds to a comment asking what they do for work, expressing gratitude for the compliment. They explain their approach to sharing their life on social media, balancing privacy with showing what they love, which is mostly makeup. They reflect on their past struggles and the importance of hard work and a good mindset, contrasting it with those who chase unattainable lifestyles and become bitter.
Structure
1Responds to a comment asking about their work.
2Expresses gratitude for the compliment and explains their social media approach.
3Discusses balancing privacy with sharing their life and passions.
4Reflects on their past, hard work, and the importance of mindset.
5Contrasts their approach with those who chase unattainable lifestyles.
6Shares a personal anecdote about finding parsnips.
7Concludes with advice on self-aspiration and a sign-off.
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Answering your question as best I can. Thank you for asking 🥰 #dayinmylife #costofliving #reality #answer #fyp
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can I ask, what do you do for work? maybe would be an awesome video for those who aspire to be like you and be able to purchase designer goods
SO I GOT THIS
COMMENT ASKING WHAT I DO
AND WOULD I CONSIDER
MAYBE DOING A LIFESTYLE
WHAT I DO FOR
WORK KIND OF VIDEO,
UM, FOR PEOPLE THAT
MIGHT ASPIRE TO HAVE LIFESTYLE
LIKE MY
AND WOW, WHAT A COMPLIMENT.
LIKE, THANK YOU SO MUCH.
UH, I REALLY WANNA
ANSWER THIS QUESTION AS
GOOD AS I POSSIBLY CAN
WITH GIVING YOU THE
INFORMATION THAT YOU WANT,
BUT WITH ALSO KEEPING
SOME PRIVACY.
HAVE SOME, KEEP SOME PRIVACY.
I DO HAVE PEOPLE
THAT WATCH MY VIDEOS
THAT HAVE MALICIOUS INTENT
AND A
QUITE OBSESSED WITH EVERYDAY
FINANCES AND THE INS
AND OUTS OF MY RELATIONSHIP
AND JUST MY DAY TO
DAY LIFE.
AND SO I'LL TRY
TO KEEP
THAT PRIVATE.
UM, AND ONLY SHOW,
YOU KNOW, WHAT I WANNA
SHOW ON, ON SOCIAL MEDIA, WHICH
IS EXACTLY
WHAT SOCIAL MEDIA
IS A HIGHLIGHT REEL.
IT'S A HIGHLIGHT REEL.
I SHOW YOU MY
A LITTLE BIT OF THIS,
THAT, ALTHOUGH I DO
TRY AND
KEEP IT BALANCED.
I STRUGGLE.
OF BROUGHT UP A,
A BIGGER QUESTION FOR ME
BECAUSE I DO STRUGGLE
QUITE A LOT WITH
WHAT TO PUT OUT
AND, UM,
WHAT NOT TO PUT OUT
BECAUSE SOMETIMES WHEN I
PUT OUT
SOMETHING THAT'S A
LITTLE LUXURIOUS,
I HAVE
THIS WHOLE
LIKE, BUT THAT'S NOT
MY A WHOLE LIFE.
AND THEN I'M
REFLECTING AND I'M LIKE,
I DON'T WANT PEOPLE
IS MY ENTIRE LIFE BECAUSE
CAUSE, YOU KNOW,
I GREW UP VERY
POOR. I
GREW UP VERY,
VERY POOR. AND I'VE
WORKED VERY HARD MY
ENTIRE LIFE.
MY HUSBAND
WORKS VERY HARD
AND WE'VE,
YOU KNOW, STRUGGLED.
WE'VE,
WE'VE HAD TO SAVE,
YOU KNOW,
I DON'T
PURCHASE THINGS
ALL THE TIME BECAUSE
MY PRIORITIES ARE MY CHILDREN.
WE WANT TO CREATE
TO CREATE
A BETTER AND EASIER LIFE
LIKE THEY WORK REALLY,
REALLY HARD.
AND IN THIS DAY, LIKE
AN AGE,
IT'S LIKE REALLY HARD
FOR THEM TO GET A
SO, YOU KNOW,
THEY'RE WORKING FIVE, SIX
DAYS A WEEK AND THEY'RE
SO WE WANNA, YOU KNOW,
HELP THEM AS MUCH AS
SO OUR MONEY AND
OUR FINANCES SORT OF
GO TOWARDS THE FUTURE.
OH, I DON'T WANNA
JUST LUXURY.
AND I REALLY DON'T
YOU BOTH OF THAT.
I JUST WANT THIS
TO BE JUST AN OUTLET
FOR ME,
A BIT OF FUN, UH,
SHOWING WHAT
I LOVE,
WHICH IS
MOSTLY MAKEUP.
AND I
LIKE TO
WHICH IS WEIRD. I KNOW
I DO.
I COLLECT IT. UM,
SO I JUST, YOU KNOW,
AND I DON'T WANNA
JUST SHOW
THIS FALSE
LUXURY LIFESTYLE.
I MEAN, I COULD,
AND I
COULD SHOW YOU
ONLY THAT,
GONNA BE
MY TRUTH.
AND I,
I DON'T WANNA
DO THAT.
UM, I KNOW A
LOT OF PEOPLE DO.
SUPER WEALTHY
THAT DO IT
WITHOUT THINKING.
AND, YOU KNOW,
I LOVE
WATCHING THOSE
VIDEOS BECAUSE IT'S NOT
SOMETHING I ASPIRE TO.
SEE IT.
I'M JUST INTERESTED. YOU KNOW,
YOU'VE GOT YOUR INFLUENCES
JUST PROMOTING
AND PROBABLY IN A
LOT OF DEBT OR
SPENDING EVERY SINGLE CENT
THEY HAVE
TRYING TO CHASE THIS
FALSE WORLD THAT THEY'RE
NEVER GOING TO ACHIEVE.
THEY NEVER, IT'S
NOT MAINTAINABLE.
UM, YOU KNOW,
YOU'VE GOT GENERATIONAL WEALTH
OUT THERE,
EFFORTLESS WEALTH THAT THEY
ABOUT IT.
THEN YOU'VE GOT INFLUENCERS
THAT ARE CHASING THAT
WEALTH THAT ARE IN DEBT,
THAT ARE
SPENDING EVERYTHING
THEY HAVE TRYING TO
SHOW THIS
LIFESTYLE THAT, AND,
PEOPLE THAT
ARE TRYING TO ASPIRE
WHICH THEY REALLY SHOULDN'T.
YOU CAN'T ASPIRE TO
SOMETHING YOU CAN NEVER HAVE.
YOU SHOULD ASPIRE TO
BE THE BEST VERSION
OF YOURSELF.
FUNDAMENTALLY, YOU
ARE GOING
TO GET NOWHERE IN
LIFE UNLESS YOU'RE A
GOOD PERSON
AND YOU HAVE A
GOOD GROUNDING AND A
GOOD MINDSET.
WITHOUT THAT,
YOU'RE NEVER GONNA GET ANYWHERE.
IF YOU'RE JEALOUS OF PEOPLE,
AND THIS IS NOT
AIMED AT
THE PERSON THAT
THIS IS JUST GENERAL,
IF YOU'RE JEALOUS OF PEOPLE,
I WATCHED A VIDEO
TODAY THAT BLEW MY MIND.
THIS GIRL I USED
ON YOUTUBE IS JUST
TURNED INTO THIS BITTER
LIKE NEGATIVE I HAD
I WAS JUST LIKE
WHOA LIKE WHY IS
SHE SO
BITTER AND NEGATIVE?
WHO CARES IF SOMEONE'S
OUT THERE YOU KNOW SHOWING
THEIR WEALTH?
LIKE WHO CARES? AT
THE END OF THE DAY
THAT'S THEIR LIFE THAT'S
WHAT THEY'RE DOING WHO
ACTUALLY CARES?
DON'T LET
IT AFFECT YOUR
EVERYDAY LIFE
AFFECTS OTHER
PEOPLE'S EVERYDAY LIFE
LIKE THEY SPIRAL
PURELY BECAUSE OF
AND IT'S JUST CRAZY
TO ME THAT PEOPLE
ARE LIKE THIS ANYWAY,
THAT'S NOT
THIS PERSON THAT THAT
ASKED ME THIS QUESTION
IT'S JUST THAT'S JUST
I STRUGGLE SO MUCH
ABOUT THIS
YOU KNOW WHAT CAN
I SHOW WHAT WHAT DON'T I
SHOW AND YOU KNOW
BUT HOW DO I
SHARE EVERYTHING THAT I LOVE?
LIKE OH, IT'S JUST
IT'S JUST SO FUCKING
HARD UM,
DOESN'T MATTER WHAT YOU DO
YOU'RE GONNA GET HATE
AND YOU'RE GONNA GET LIKES
I DON'T KNOW ANYWAY, UM,
ALL I CAN DO
IS JUST LEAVE YOU
WITH THAT HA HA HA
I'VE ANSWERED NOTHING WHAT
I DO WITH MY EVERYDAY LIFE
TODAY I'M MAKING PEA AND
YESTERDAY I WAS TRYING
TO FIND PARSNIPS BECAUSE
FOR SOME REASON PARSNIPS
ARE UM
THERE'S A SHORTAGE OF
THEM SO THE THE
THERE'S A SHORTAGE OF
PARSNIPS SO HOW WEIRD IS
THAT? ANYWAY,
NOT SURE WHAT'S HAPPENING
WITH THE PARSNIP FARMERS BUT
YOU KNOW
HAD TO CHASE ONE
DOWN YESTERDAY SO I
CAN MAKE MY SOUP TODAY.
THAT WAS A STRUGGLE.
NOT REALLY, BUT IT
WAS A STRUGGLE TO
FEED MY FAMILY LAST NIGHT
BECAUSE THAT WAS FUCKING EXPENSIVE.
ANYWAY, THAT'S A WHOLE
OTHER THING.
UM, I GOT A DOG HERE.
UM, I'M SORRY
THAT HASN'T PROBABLY EXPLAINED ANYTHING
EXCEPT THAT I SAY
EXCEPT THAT I SAY
WORKED HARD MY WHOLE LIFE
AND, UM,
THAT'S REALLY IT. I,
I, I
I WISH
I COULD TELL
BUT THAT'S IT. UM,
DON'T ASPIRE TO BE ANYONE
BUT YOURSELF.
AND I'LL SEE YOU
IN MY NEXT VIDEO MAYBE.
HA HA, CHA CHA. BYE.
Transcript
SO I GOT THIS COMMENT ASKING WHAT I DO AND WOULD I CONSIDER MAYBE DOING A LIFESTYLE WHAT I DO FOR WORK KIND OF VIDEO, UM, FOR PEOPLE THAT MIGHT ASPIRE TO HAVE LIFESTYLE LIKE MY AND WOW, WHAT A COMPLIMENT. LIKE, THANK YOU SO MUCH. UH, I REALLY WANNA ANSWER THIS QUESTION AS GOOD AS I POSSIBLY CAN WITH GIVING YOU THE INFORMATION THAT YOU WANT, BUT WITH ALSO KEEPING SOME PRIVACY. HAVE SOME, KEEP SOME PRIVACY. I DO HAVE PEOPLE THAT WATCH MY VIDEOS THAT HAVE MALICIOUS INTENT AND A QUITE OBSESSED WITH EVERYDAY FINANCES AND THE INS AND OUTS OF MY RELATIONSHIP AND JUST MY DAY TO DAY LIFE. AND SO I'LL TRY TO KEEP THAT PRIVATE. UM, AND ONLY SHOW, YOU KNOW, WHAT I WANNA SHOW ON, ON SOCIAL MEDIA, WHICH IS EXACTLY WHAT SOCIAL MEDIA IS A HIGHLIGHT REEL. IT'S A HIGHLIGHT REEL. I SHOW YOU MY A LITTLE BIT OF THIS, THAT, ALTHOUGH I DO TRY AND KEEP IT BALANCED. I STRUGGLE. OF BROUGHT UP A, A BIGGER QUESTION FOR ME BECAUSE I DO STRUGGLE QUITE A LOT WITH WHAT TO PUT OUT AND, UM, WHAT NOT TO PUT OUT BECAUSE SOMETIMES WHEN I PUT OUT SOMETHING THAT'S A LITTLE LUXURIOUS, I HAVE THIS WHOLE LIKE, BUT THAT'S NOT MY A WHOLE LIFE. AND THEN I'M REFLECTING AND I'M LIKE, I DON'T WANT PEOPLE IS MY ENTIRE LIFE BECAUSE CAUSE, YOU KNOW, I GREW UP VERY POOR. I GREW UP VERY, VERY POOR. AND I'VE WORKED VERY HARD MY ENTIRE LIFE. MY HUSBAND WORKS VERY HARD AND WE'VE, YOU KNOW, STRUGGLED. WE'VE, WE'VE HAD TO SAVE, YOU KNOW, I DON'T PURCHASE THINGS ALL THE TIME BECAUSE MY PRIORITIES ARE MY CHILDREN. WE WANT TO CREATE TO CREATE A BETTER AND EASIER LIFE LIKE THEY WORK REALLY, REALLY HARD. AND IN THIS DAY, LIKE AN AGE, IT'S LIKE REALLY HARD FOR THEM TO GET A SO, YOU KNOW, THEY'RE WORKING FIVE, SIX DAYS A WEEK AND THEY'RE SO WE WANNA, YOU KNOW, HELP THEM AS MUCH AS SO OUR MONEY AND OUR FINANCES SORT OF GO TOWARDS THE FUTURE. OH, I DON'T WANNA JUST LUXURY. AND I REALLY DON'T YOU BOTH OF THAT. I JUST WANT THIS TO BE JUST AN OUTLET FOR ME, A BIT OF FUN, UH, SHOWING WHAT I LOVE, WHICH IS MOSTLY MAKEUP. AND I LIKE TO WHICH IS WEIRD. I KNOW I DO. I COLLECT IT. UM, SO I JUST, YOU KNOW, AND I DON'T WANNA JUST SHOW THIS FALSE LUXURY LIFESTYLE. I MEAN, I COULD, AND I COULD SHOW YOU ONLY THAT, GONNA BE MY TRUTH. AND I, I DON'T WANNA DO THAT. UM, I KNOW A LOT OF PEOPLE DO. SUPER WEALTHY THAT DO IT WITHOUT THINKING. AND, YOU KNOW, I LOVE WATCHING THOSE VIDEOS BECAUSE IT'S NOT SOMETHING I ASPIRE TO. SEE IT. I'M JUST INTERESTED. YOU KNOW, YOU'VE GOT YOUR INFLUENCES JUST PROMOTING AND PROBABLY IN A LOT OF DEBT OR SPENDING EVERY SINGLE CENT THEY HAVE TRYING TO CHASE THIS FALSE WORLD THAT THEY'RE NEVER GOING TO ACHIEVE. THEY NEVER, IT'S NOT MAINTAINABLE. UM, YOU KNOW, YOU'VE GOT GENERATIONAL WEALTH OUT THERE, EFFORTLESS WEALTH THAT THEY ABOUT IT. THEN YOU'VE GOT INFLUENCERS THAT ARE CHASING THAT WEALTH THAT ARE IN DEBT, THAT ARE SPENDING EVERYTHING THEY HAVE TRYING TO SHOW THIS LIFESTYLE THAT, AND, PEOPLE THAT ARE TRYING TO ASPIRE WHICH THEY REALLY SHOULDN'T. YOU CAN'T ASPIRE TO SOMETHING YOU CAN NEVER HAVE. YOU SHOULD ASPIRE TO BE THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF. FUNDAMENTALLY, YOU ARE GOING TO GET NOWHERE IN LIFE UNLESS YOU'RE A GOOD PERSON AND YOU HAVE A GOOD GROUNDING AND A GOOD MINDSET. WITHOUT THAT, YOU'RE NEVER GONNA GET ANYWHERE. IF YOU'RE JEALOUS OF PEOPLE, AND THIS IS NOT AIMED AT THE PERSON THAT THIS IS JUST GENERAL, IF YOU'RE JEALOUS OF PEOPLE, I WATCHED A VIDEO TODAY THAT BLEW MY MIND. THIS GIRL I USED ON YOUTUBE IS JUST TURNED INTO THIS BITTER LIKE NEGATIVE I HAD I WAS JUST LIKE WHOA LIKE WHY IS SHE SO BITTER AND NEGATIVE? WHO CARES IF SOMEONE'S OUT THERE YOU KNOW SHOWING THEIR WEALTH? LIKE WHO CARES? AT THE END OF THE DAY THAT'S THEIR LIFE THAT'S WHAT THEY'RE DOING WHO ACTUALLY CARES? DON'T LET IT AFFECT YOUR EVERYDAY LIFE AFFECTS OTHER PEOPLE'S EVERYDAY LIFE LIKE THEY SPIRAL PURELY BECAUSE OF AND IT'S JUST CRAZY TO ME THAT PEOPLE ARE LIKE THIS ANYWAY, THAT'S NOT THIS PERSON THAT THAT ASKED ME THIS QUESTION IT'S JUST THAT'S JUST I STRUGGLE SO MUCH ABOUT THIS YOU KNOW WHAT CAN I SHOW WHAT WHAT DON'T I SHOW AND YOU KNOW BUT HOW DO I SHARE EVERYTHING THAT I LOVE? LIKE OH, IT'S JUST IT'S JUST SO FUCKING HARD UM, DOESN'T MATTER WHAT YOU DO YOU'RE GONNA GET HATE AND YOU'RE GONNA GET LIKES I DON'T KNOW ANYWAY, UM, ALL I CAN DO IS JUST LEAVE YOU WITH THAT HA HA HA I'VE ANSWERED NOTHING WHAT I DO WITH MY EVERYDAY LIFE TODAY I'M MAKING PEA AND YESTERDAY I WAS TRYING TO FIND PARSNIPS BECAUSE FOR SOME REASON PARSNIPS ARE UM THERE'S A SHORTAGE OF THEM SO THE THE THERE'S A SHORTAGE OF PARSNIPS SO HOW WEIRD IS THAT? ANYWAY, NOT SURE WHAT'S HAPPENING WITH THE PARSNIP FARMERS BUT YOU KNOW HAD TO CHASE ONE DOWN YESTERDAY SO I CAN MAKE MY SOUP TODAY. THAT WAS A STRUGGLE. NOT REALLY, BUT IT WAS A STRUGGLE TO FEED MY FAMILY LAST NIGHT BECAUSE THAT WAS FUCKING EXPENSIVE. ANYWAY, THAT'S A WHOLE OTHER THING. UM, I GOT A DOG HERE. UM, I'M SORRY THAT HASN'T PROBABLY EXPLAINED ANYTHING EXCEPT THAT I SAY EXCEPT THAT I SAY WORKED HARD MY WHOLE LIFE AND, UM, THAT'S REALLY IT. I, I, I I WISH I COULD TELL BUT THAT'S IT. UM, DON'T ASPIRE TO BE ANYONE BUT YOURSELF. AND I'LL SEE YOU IN MY NEXT VIDEO MAYBE. HA HA, CHA CHA. BYE.
