girl do you

girl do you realize you're about to lose something rare? he's doing everything to show you he loves you, to be there for you, to support you through your overthinking and emotional moments, and you're still creating distance for what men, rare guys who genuinely care are hard to find, and you're treating this one like he's replaceable. everyone keeps asking, good guys, front of you. if you love him the way do, then your actions need to reflect that. because when someone gives their best and still feels invisible, it slowly convinces them they're not enough. it makes him feel unappreciated, taken for granted, and emotionally useless, no matter how hard he tries. over time that man, he starts pulling back, protecting himself, and becoming emotionally guarded instead of open. men lose their softness, not because they wanted to change, but because staying vulnerable stopped feeling safe. when a man feels unseen for too long, he doesn't argue or beg, he quietly withdraws and stops offering the effort that once came naturally.