pushing a man

pushing a man until he finally snaps, then running to your friends crying, he's so mean and so toxic and abusive. That's one of the most lowest and evil forms of manipulation ever. To disrespect him every day. He opens up, emasculate him for not being what you can't handle. Ignore his needs, flirt with men in his face and use intimacy like a weapon. And then act shocked when he finally blows up or walks away. He didn't just turn into an idiot overnight. You drained him. You chipped away until nothing was left. You trained the nice guy you met to stop caring. Good men don't wake up cold. They get turned cold by women who mistake his self-control for weakness. Then when he finally says enough is enough, you play victim and cry wolf. No honey, you're not the victim. You're the one crying about the fire that you just started. Grow up. So stop acting like you don't know what just happened. You know exactly what you did. You just never actually walk away. Now he's gone, or worse, you've numbed him. You're on social talking about how ones turned bad. No again, honey. One disrespectful act at a time. Own it or keep pretending you don't know why every man after him stops trusting women like you. It's your move.