ignoring a woman

ignoring a woman makes her more interested. ignoring a man makes him lose interest immediately. the difference is self-respect. men never bet their self-respect, not even for the most precious world. once a man feels unwanted, chase louder, he goes quiet. not to manipulate you, not to test you. something inside him just closes. a man can love deeply, he can give effort, protection, loyalty. the moment he feels dismissed, replaced, or taken lightly, his instinct is not to compete. it is to withdraw. and when he withdraws, it is rarely dramatic. it is silent. final. he will not be valued. he will not argue for basic respect. he will simply remove himself from where he feels small. if you ever test his silence, be ready for the distance that follows. once a man checks out emotionally, getting him back is harder than people think. him you fell for does not come back the same. he returns guarded, at all. if he returns at all. save this read. read it again tomorrow. then ask yourself an honest question. are you protecting your self-respect, or are you trading it for somebody else's attention? the wrong man will let you bleed it dry chasing him. the right one, you start