if she's dressing

if she's dressing sexy to go out without you she is already dressing up for somebody else women do not prime their faces, glue on their lashes and squeeze into outfits that scream look at me, look at me for nobody to see. for the eyes that want locked on to them. they'll say it's a night out, I'm just blowing off steam. I just want to look pretty for myself and for my girls. get the fuck out of here with that narrative. a committed woman does not broadcast available energy to strangers ever. when the effort flips away from you, the loyalty already walked out the door hours ago. that is the difference between attention versus commitment. validation from strangers versus your respect and thirsty orbiters versus one consistent man. which one is she choosing right now? a real man does not allow that crap. he doesn't beg for her to come home early, not play detective or interrogate her the next day. do that. puts his foot down right away, quietly, firmly and finally. you were not built to chase who was auditioning for somebody else. so quit playing guy or guys she's having fun with, home. know your damn value or leave before she does. your choice.