I recently declined being a bridesmaid...

I recently declined being a bridesmaid in one of my close friends wedding and I posted a video about it and the comments are very divided. Some people are in agreement with me and others are saying you need to be in this person's wedding. Now let me just get, we got to get to some of these comments because I'm sorry, some of them are absolutely bad shit crazy. People are saying you can't expect community without being inconvenienced. Wrong. I'm sorry. We tallied up how much it would cost to be in this specific friends bridal party. Six grand. Six grand. Do you guys have six grand to spend on your friends wedding? I don't care how good of a friend you are. I wouldn't spend six grand to be in my friends wedding. I looked at her and I said my friend, I love you. I'm not paying six grand. Big step back. You're out of your mother fucking mind. I don't care if you think I'm the cheapest person alive. Six grand. Another thing I can't be a bridesmaid because I can't commit to being at your wedding because I have a very volatile career with acting and somebody said, curb your just don't take any acting jobs that fall within your friends wedding weekend. I think that's crazy. I don't care if it was my own wedding. If I booked an acting job, my wedding would be canceled and I'd be on the flight to go film a TV show in Canada. My agent called me and said, hey Kirby, you have to go to Canada right now to film a job. I'd say, look, hold this question for six more months while I go film this TV show in Canada. I'll give you an answer when I get back. What type of friend are you guys that you would give up your life dream for somebody's wedding? Maybe I'm a monster. But that's who I am. It honestly shocked me. And the very last thing I'll address are the people in the comments saying, how do you expect your friends to show up for you one day when you get married and you're not a bridesmaid? Whoa, let me stop you right there. First of all, I don't even know if that's in the cards for me. I don't even know if I'm gonna get married. And if I do, I won't have any bridesmaids. All my friends, by the way, there's only four of them. Know who I am as a person. I am very low key. Once specific friend who's getting married, party, everything, big. That's not me. She knows that's not me. My other friend, childhood friend, divorced. My other friend, married with a baby. My other friend, married. I'm set. I'm golden. I'm gonna call them up each individually and say, hey, I'm getting married. You want to come to my backyard and celebrate? That's going to be it. Low key. 20 people max at my wedding if I even do. We'll see.