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I fear that a lot of you guys need a little bit of tough love when it comes to organizing your house because you guys like to hold onto literally everything. So today I'm going to be running through my six decluttering rules. It's gonna help you get a little bit ruthless, a little bit brutal with your declutter process, but I swear it's gonna help you so much. So let's dive in. Rule number one, there are no more maybes. This is becoming one of my like famous lines that my clients are always like, I can hear your voice inside my head because I tell them, if it's not a hell yes, it's a hell no. And that simple line will help you so much declutter your life. Let's say you're just holding up something, like here's my phone case, right? If I hold this up, I come across as kinda, I don't know, like I did use this a while back, but I don't really love it anymore. I haven't used it in probably over a year. Like you can see how I'm like contemplating, let just let it go. All of these like maybes, all these decisions, all these things you're actually holding onto are just like decisions that's like laying the inevitable. Stop the delaying and just let go. Rule number two is stop organizing clutter. That's happening way too often. You guys are just constantly organizing everything in your house and thinking that that's what's actually gonna help your house feel calmer. When in reality, that's only making things worse. You need to declutter your house first. Then you can get into organizing. But think about it. Let's say randomly one day you're like, I'm gonna organize my house. You go buy all these bins, target, home, organizing and everything, and you just shove things into the bins, right? They're overflowing, but then you step back and you're like, oh, I'm organized. But then it's just constantly overflowing. That's not what we're doing, okay? Just because you have the space to decluttering, does not mean you need to fill the space. Rule number three is you need to set a timer for 30 minutes and that is all you're gonna do. First, your decluttering journey, it's gonna feel overwhelming because there's so much to do. So you're gonna set again, a timer for 30 minutes. Pick a space in your house and go. Done. You're done for the day. You can move on with it the next day. But if you can give yourself 30 minutes, I promise you're gonna make such a dent in your house and that momentum, you're gonna want to keep going. If you guys are like, I don't know where to start, what do I do? I actually made a 30-day guide for you guys. It's linked in my bio. It's called the overwhelmed mom home reset. Basically, I've created daily tasks for you guys that take maximum 30 minutes. So if you guys want a little more structure with that, make sure you snag that. We are starting a new challenge August 1st. So this is the perfect decluttering. Rule number four is every single room in your house needs rules. It needs to have boundaries. That means we don't just get to throw things into rooms and close the door and call it a day anymore. Let's say for example, the pantry. Obviously only food items are going in the pantry. You have a home office. Only office supplies, office type things are going in the office. Not a drop zone for random shit. That way when you get home, you're gonna set something down and if it's not in its designated spot, you need to think to yourself, okay, where does this need to go? Rule number five is guilt is not a storage solution. You need to stop keeping things out of guilt. Let's say someone gives you a gift and you feel like you need to keep that item when in reality, you've never actually used that item. So get rid of the item. This might sound a little hardest, but I feel like you guys need this kind of brutal decluttering advice to actually get over that hump of getting rid of things you don't actually need again. Gift, sentimental, or you're like, I don't think I'd ever pass this along to my kids. Like, we need to come up with another solution for that. So you do not need to keep every single gift that someone gives you just because you feel guilty about it. Rule number six is my other famous one. It's one in, one out. It's pretty straightforward on this one. If you're going to buy something and you bring it into your house, one thing needs to go. Let's say for example, you buy a toy for your kid. They bring the toy in, one toy needs to go. I implemented this in my own house probably two years ago and now my daughter just knows. She'll bring it to me and she'll be like, okay, mom, I wanna spend my money on this toy at Target. So I know I need to get rid of a toy that I haven't used in a while. I'm like, you know the drill girl. And that also goes for you too. If you bring a new shirt home, a new dress home, go through your closet, take time to be like, okay, what have I not worn in a while? What can I get rid of? And get rid of stuff. One in, one out. That's it for today. Hopefully this was helpful. And again, I have another declutter challenge coming up on August 1st. If you guys want to join in on that, comment “IM IN” below and I will get you guys the guide. And if anything, just go get after it. Go do something today that's gonna make your house feel lighter and more calm. I promise you will thank me later. I love you. Bye.