I'm a private investigator and there's one thing that men do right before they cheat that you would never suspect as a red flag and I'm going to tell you exactly what it is.

I'm a private investigator and there's one thing that men do right before they cheat that you would never suspect as a red flag and I'm going to tell you exactly what it is. The car wash. I hate to say it but he's 100% correct. This is exactly how I have caught more than one of my exes cheating as well. Lock in here for another low drop story time here Women's Fire, but obviously it's not necessarily getting a car wash. It's a change in routine that was very constant before. It's a subtle shift in behavior, right? I've heard women say, oh my man had never once like shaved his face or something And one day he just did. And that's how we know Hassan Pike is cheating on all of us now, of course. Or something of the sort. It doesn't have to be that dramatic for instance, my story, uh the last time this happened to me. Many, many, many years ago I was seeing a man, I know, terrible start to a story. But you know, earlier on, we had had some casual conversation we discovered like my favorite drink to have at the end of the day was a glass of apple juice. And a very specific brand of chips. So the first time I went over to his house, he had bought that for me and he offered it to me. It was very sweet and he brought it over to me on the couch. And so every time I went over to his house after that, which was almost every day after work at a certain point, he would offer to get that for me from the kitchen. Cuz he just kept it stocked in his house. He would buy it at the grocery store at that point for me. And then one day, he stopped offering it to me. He didn't offer it. I noticed that because I had to go into the kitchen and get it myself. And obviously, my first thought wasn't just like, oh, this man's cheating on me, but like I noticed it. I was like, oh, something's off. That was strange. Something's changed here and very shortly afterwards, I just discovered yes and I think it tied directly back to that timeline. And I'm not saying ladies like oh if your man stops offering you a soda at the end of the day he must be cheating on you but that's when I was like something's going on here and now I'm going to start sniffing around a little. And as it tends to be at that point it was extremely easy for me to find out but yes it is these subtle changes and shifts that weren't usually there before where you should maybe start asking a few questions.