I'm on a first date. My date is 20 minutes late.

I'm on a first date. My date is 20 minutes late. That's not a problem. He paid for this wine glasses. He doesn't know that he paid for it yet, but he did. Okay, this video has almost 20 million views and people keep sending it to me. You can stop women's fear lock in here. I assume that all the haters think that I'm about to agree with everything this woman says. Uh, let's walk through it and figure out why she didn't get a second date. Anyway, I ordered this drink, she comes around and I go, by the way, I'm not paying for this. This is all going to be on him. And she said, obviously, you're not paying for that. Right out of the gate, I already I disagree with everyone in the comments section. Acting like 20 minutes late to a first date is no big deal. First date is a first impression and so far both sides of this absolutely blowing it. So maybe there's soulmates. But 20 minutes late, I would almost consider getting up and leaving. You get 15 and the only reason I would stay at this point is because he was openly communicating like, hey, I'm running late, so sorry. Okay, I guess. Mentally, I would also be thinking that you owe me a glass of wine for that. I would not however be sitting around abnoxiously bragging with the weight staff and all the strangers around me about how he's going to be paying for everything. That's weird. I'd be late. My man, like my man would be so apologetic about it. Like I'm so sorry that I'm late. And then he would be like, order whatever you want, obviously it's all on me. Please get all the appetizer and all the drinks that you want. My bad for being late. Like that's what my man would say. Not looking great that he's my man. But don't worry. It keeps going and gets worse. But this right here is already the part where I'm fully on his side. I too would be blocking you and running for the hills. Because you have never met. This is a stranger and you're sitting in this restaurant screaming, my man, my man, my man, you don't know This is Glen Dale. And again, I too would still be annoyed by the late thing. I would be writing that down mentally, but he did apologize and he is not your man. One drink. Well I guess two because by the time he gets here, I'll probably have another one. If if he's not six feet like he says, it's The only thing I'll say as someone who the last man I dated, I believe was like 59 or 510. So height isn't really a thing for me, but I will agree that if you lied about your height, I'm now also wondering what else you've lied about. However, I don't think there should be any question as to why you did not get a second date out of this. And in fact, most influencers who do dating vlog content like this, should never wonder why they're single because there's no way in which I would ever want to show up on a date and then know that that person immediately went home and just started like tearing me apart online and then expected me to call. I feel that's common sense. Anytime I tell a story, quite some time has passed and I will change minor two major details so that people never really know who they're about unless it's extremely specific. In which case it probably happened to me years ago. And I don't plan on ever hearing from that person again, God willing. That's why everyone acted like I took down the second tower when I revealed that man I had been seen recently that I had known for 12 years. Because the rest of us understand the things that are included with being a public figure. And it sucks, but you have to have a realistic understanding of how you're going to be perceived and public perception and these are like conversations I've had with people I'm dating. Whose identities I have so far protected.