Don't cook and you don't clean.

Don't cook and you don't clean. No, because I when women, when the default goes for women to cook and clean in a relationship, then I think that's also why so many people are struggling in relationships because that's labor. So compared to women's labor, compared to men's labor, if he takes care of all the bills, it's still five jobs compared to his. No. No. My husband does blue collar work. And what I do at home is nothing compared to what he does outside the house. Okay. And what does your what's your husband do for work? Oh, he does construction. Does he do heavy machinery or is he more? Forklift, boom lifts, all kinds of lifts. Kim doing what he's doing coming home baked looking like a freaking lobster. I'm not going to complain about what I do at home. And he supports the whole family. Absolutely. And all I'm doing is what am I doing? Cooking, cleaning. What you are working too? Like would you want him to also clean and cook too? He offers but I told him hell knows. Sit your ass down. Do not do a thing. You were just out there for like 12, 14, 16, sometimes 18 or more hours. Oh damn. Why why am I going to make him do all that? If it weren't for him, we wouldn't be in the building we're in. We wouldn't have the things that we have all around us. Yeah, yeah. So it's like they are literally the back bone to our society building the infrastructure that we have all around us. The technology and all of that. You know, so I actually put my husband on that highest level of respect when it comes to the line of work he does. because if it weren't for him and everybody else, where will we be? Exactly. Exactly. Exactly. That's a good woman right there. Nice and appreciative. The one that started out talking, that's the one I might question a little bit. She's basically saying if that's the default, doesn't get any better and besides that I do five jobs. Ma'am, just because you cook and you clean doesn't mean you have two jobs. It means you did two things. Okay, your job is to support the man. Now you might cook, you might clean, you might give up the, that ain't a job, okay? Just like if you go to the work, you know, them don't do one thing all day. They do a number of things all day long. And one of the things that they do is pay the bills. That's not a job, that's an obligation. So a man has his role, a woman has her role. If you guys want to reverse roles, that's great. If you want to, you know, combine roles, that's fantastic. You want to swap roles, compromise is a beautiful thing, but you can't sit there and say that cooking and cleaning and you know, washing the car, that is a man's job, but cooking and cleaning are two different. things, okay? It's one thing. It's called supporting your man.