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Y'all really wanna know why sometimes people will just ghost when it comes to dating or friendships? Y'all exactly. Why hold on. The car real quick. So boom, I'm in the car. When somebody ghost you randomly, whether be a friend or somebody you dating, they probably have lower on the social hierarchy. Let me explain. This goes for both men and women. You ever met somebody and they was like super into you in the beginning? And as they got to know you more, like they started to spend you, they started you less, or phone calls, their interest just down over time. It's either because they probably did meet somebody else or it's because in their monkey brains, cause we're we're all got monkey brains, they placed you lower on the social started to treat you as if you were lower hierarchy. Something I've learnt, a lot of people do this subconsciously, aware of their nature. They will you based on where they think you are in the social hierarchy. Got high social status and they, a lot of, be around you. You got a, they wanna talk, think you got people that respect you. They wanna respect you, they wanna be around you, they with you, they wanna date you. Saying, making sense? Why do you think sometimes when with somebody, start dealing with other people, you start dating other people and they see you dealing with, they see you dating other people now, get back together? That's why that happens. A lot of people is when some people break up, the reasons you think sometimes, just see this person as less valuable. And it really be that simple. Person as lower on the social hierarchy. Person as not having that much value to them. So they wanna go find somebody who's higher in the social hierarchy. Find somebody who has more eyes of not only themselves but of other people. To do with your personality, ain't do with your, got nothing to of that. It's literally that superficial ass reason. Sometimes the simplest answer is the answer that a lot of people don't be seeing. This goes for both. This is why people will get friend zoned. Cool person. They see you as having a dope personality. They like you, they like talking to you. But you're not valuable enough to date. Does that make sense? Infinite reasons why somebody as valuable. It has nothing your personality and ain't with the emotional connection between y'all. Because you don't have enough hobbies like they got, enough resources like to have it. Could be because you're not high social hierarchy like to be. So many infinite reasons that a lot of people don't be thinking about. And because you don't have that value, they'll just friend, they'll place you lower on the social of their lower lesser friends.