One of The main reasons I stopped caring so much

One of The main reasons I stopped caring so much when it came to having friends and stuff is when I realised that a lot of people are insecure and they only wanna be your friend or they only wanna hang out with you or be in your proximity based off of your placement in the social hierarchy. Right? Like when y'all first start dealing with each other, they might seem like super invested in you, really wanna get to know you and stuff. They might ask you all these different questions. Little do you realise, they be doing this cause they're testing you. They trying to see where you rank on the social hierarchy. And that'll let them determine how they're gonna go about y'all dynamic together, how well they're gonna treat you, how much they're gonna Wanna be around you. Like, it's really people that do this, they really just doing like an assessment on you right now. That'll let them know of how they should treat you based on where you're placed in the social hierarchy. And people who do this, they are superficial. They are so insecure about their placement on the social hierarchy. They only wanna surround themselves with high ranking people because that's the only way they can feel good about themselves. It really makes them feel better about themselves that, oh, I'm friends with this person that ranks high on the social hierarchy, I'm friends with this person that everyone else wants to be around. And everyone else respects. This is really how they minds work. These are some of the most superficial and insecure people you ever gonna meet in your entire life. The entire time y'all hanging out, they just paying attention to how other people treat you. They pay attention to your daily habits, the stuff you do on a daily basis. They really just assessing you still. Of where you place on the social hierarchy. And it lets them know of where they're going to place you at in their mind.