If you're thinking about getting married after 40, these are the conversations you need to have before you say yes.

Most couples avoid these conversations before marriage. Then spend years paying for it. Here's what you actually need to talk about: 1. How do you each handle money, debt, and financial stress when things get tight? 2. Do you want the same kind of life in 10 years or just the same person in it? 3. How do you repair after conflict and how long does it take you to come back? 4. What does your relationship with your family look like and how much does that affect us? 5. What are you still carrying from your last relationship that I should know about? 6. What does a good day look like for you and what does a hard day need from me? 7. What would make you walk away from this and what would make you stay no matter what? These aren't comfortable questions. But the discomfort of having them now is nothing compared to the cost of not having them at all. Which one would you find hardest to answer honestly? Drop it below. #relationships #knowledgesharing #fyp #phycologyfacts #deepthoughts