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If you're thinking about getting married after 40, these are the conversations you need to have before you say yes.
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Why it worked
The video taps into a common life stage and a significant decision (marriage), addressing potential anxieties and offering practical advice. The hook is direct and relevant, and the prompt to 'Read caption' encourages engagement with more detailed information.
Summary
The video presents a list of crucial conversations couples should have before getting married, especially after the age of 40. It emphasizes that some of these discussions might be uncomfortable but are necessary to avoid future marital problems.
Structure
- 1Introduction to the topic of pre-marriage conversations after 40
- 2Listing the essential conversation topics
- 3Highlighting the potential discomfort of these conversations
- 4Call to action to read the caption for more details
Call to action
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If you're thinking about getting married after 40, these are the conversations you need to have before you say yes.
ps. some of them will be uncomfortable
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Original caption
Most couples avoid these conversations before marriage. Then spend years paying for it. Here's what you actually need to talk about: 1. How do you each handle money, debt, and financial stress when things get tight? 2. Do you want the same kind of life in 10 years or just the same person in it? 3. How do you repair after conflict and how long does it take you to come back? 4. What does your relationship with your family look like and how much does that affect us? 5. What are you still carrying from your last relationship that I should know about? 6. What does a good day look like for you and what does a hard day need from me? 7. What would make you walk away from this and what would make you stay no matter what? These aren't comfortable questions. But the discomfort of having them now is nothing compared to the cost of not having them at all. Which one would you find hardest to answer honestly? Drop it below. #relationships #knowledgesharing #fyp #phycologyfacts #deepthoughts
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