NEVER text a girl this.. 🫣

@techwithkayla_

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Why it worked

The video tapped into a common dating frustration and offered a novel, creative solution using an AI tool, making it relatable and shareable.

Summary

The creator advises against sending generic texts to girls, explaining that spontaneity and not taking oneself too seriously are key in modern dating. She demonstrates how her boyfriend uses the app Cantina to create personalized, random AI videos to stand out.

Structure

1Introduction to the problem of generic texting
2Explanation of why spontaneity is important in dating
3Demonstration of the Cantina app for creating personalized videos
4Conclusion on how to stand out by being less mysterious

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You’ll get ghosted immediately🫣 #dating #datingadvice #Relationship #girladvice #textingpart1

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NEVER text a girl this.. 🫣

Transcript

NEVER text a girl this.. 🫣 Hey, how are you? How's your day going? Because 9 times out of 10, you're getting ghosted. That's just the sad reality of modern dating. If you sound and act like every other guy, you're gonna get ignored. Like every other guy. It's not about your money, it's not about your status. It's more about how spontaneous you are. Because contrary to popular belief, girls do not want these nonchalant, mysterious men. They're boring. We want guys who don't take themselves too seriously and could just be random sometimes. Like, okay, I remember when I was in the talking stage with my boyfriend, he would send me like, the randomest videos. They were like these stupid AI brain-rot videos that he'd make himself like, customized to me. Like, customized to me. It was so cute. He doesn't take himself too seriously, which was a breath of fresh air. So let me show you the process too. You guys on. Basically, he'd just go to this free app called Cantina, pick a character, write whatever you wanted to send me, press generate, and then the whole video would be made for him and he'd just send it. To actually stand out. It's funny, it's random, that you don't take yourself too seriously. So whatever you do, don't be nonchalant and mysterious, because girls hate that. Contrary to popular belief.