This is why you're still stuck...

I’m about to say something that’s going to make a lot of people uncomfortable. You’re not stuck because you still love them. You’re stuck because you’re still trying to change an ending that has already happened. Read that again. Every day, your mind is running the same experiment. “What if I had said this?” “What if I had changed sooner?” “What if I reach out one more time?” “What if they finally realize what they lost?” You’re not healing. You’re negotiating with reality. And reality doesn’t negotiate. Here’s the truth. You don’t miss them every minute of every day. You miss the version of yourself that still believes you have the power to change the outcome. That’s why you replay the memories. That’s why you stalk their social media. That’s why you wonder if they’re dating someone else. Because as long as you’re mentally participating in the relationship… You never have to emotionally accept that it’s over. That’s the addiction. Not them. The possibility. The fantasy that one conversation… One apology… One moment of regret… Will finally erase months of pain. But here’s the slap in the face. You’re asking yesterday to give you a tomorrow it no longer has the power to create. Every hour you spend trying to understand why they left… Is an hour you’re not understanding why you stayed. Why you tolerated inconsistency. Why you abandoned your boundaries. Why you confused anxiety with love. Why you kept trying to earn something that should’ve been freely given. The relationship ended once. But every day you refuse to let go… You end your own peace all over again. So here’s the question that changes everything: If they never came back… Would you finally decide that your life is still worth living? Because healing doesn’t begin when they miss you. Healing begins when you stop needing them to. The day you stop chasing the person who left… Is the day you finally stop leaving yourself. And that’s the day your real life begins. This page is dedicated to helping people navigate heartbreak, attachment wounds, emotional pain, self-awareness, and deep reflection through brutal honesty, psychology, faith, and inward healing. Follow me for a deeper look within yourself where hard truths meet self-awareness, healing replaces self-abandonment, and understanding yourself becomes the key to unlocking the life God intended for you. #chriscarrillo #stuck #move #chriscarrillo #trust