Social media has ruined birthdays for me with this, uh, posting,

Social media has ruined birthdays for me with this, uh, posting, tagging and reposting thing. You know, I really miss when it was just text messages and calls from friends. But now somebody will not send you a message, they will post you, tag you. Then if you don't repost it, they get offended. And I feel like it's just a lot of mental gymnastics that I don't want to be dealing with on my birthday. I just want to be enjoying a really chill day. And I wish I could like tell people, oh, please don't post me, but I feel like that would also be weird. Everybody has a way that they want to celebrate you, but shouldn't it be you that would decide how you want to be celebrated? Apparently not. Everybody has their own idea of how it's supposed to be. I mean, it just stresses me out, honestly. Like on my birthday, I don't want to be sitting, I like checking who has posted and who has not posted and who have reposted and who have not reposted is so mentally stressful. And I think it takes away from what is supposed to be me enjoying what is my day, you know, it is really stresses me out, man.