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Alright, so I got both of them here because this whole dynamic, it don't make sense on paper. Wait, we was doing this. We was doing this right. Okay. Bet. Nobody told me what this actually was about. Sagittarius. Sagittarius, what is it like dating a Virgo? Mmm. To be honest with you, maybe exhausting. In a good way? In a good way. I think. Same question. What is it like being with a Sage? It's a lot. I like having a plan. They'll change the plan mid-plan. But I admit. I will admit the things that would have never happened if I was just left to myself. So neither you saying it's bad. See, this is the part that people get wrong about this parent. It's not that they don't get along. Virgo, be real with me. How do you feel when they cancel a plan last minute? Sure, not great. Don't get me wrong, you know what I'm saying? Like, I'm not mad about the. I'm mad because I already thought. Thought through like 4 different versions of how the day gonna go. Sagittarius. Sagittarius, same question. How does it feel when they need a plan for everything? Shoot, like I gotta ask for permission to breathe sometimes. Sometimes I just need one. And that's sure. Okay. Here's what actually they're trying to feel prepared enough to relax. And Sagittarius is not trying to blow you off. They're trying to protect the one thing that make them feel like. Ain't that right, Sag? Freedom. Okay, when you say it like that, I get what you're saying. See. It's actually fair. Here's what happened if neither you says that part out loud. Virgo starts feeling like an inconvenience. Every time they ask for structure. Sagittarius starts feeling like a flight risk. Every time they ask for space. And eventually, you're not even fighting about the plan anymore. You're just quietly building a case on how the other person is wired. So Sagittarius, when Virgo needs detail, like, real, real details, what does that feel like? Ha! Like I'm interviewed for a job that I already got hired for. Virgo, when Sagittarius just wants to wing it, what does that feel like? Like I'm the only one who cares that this actually works. Alright. Alright, here's the actual fix. And it's not complicated. Give the details. Such. Not because you're trapped. But because it's the way that Virgo feels safe enough to let go. Virgo, leave room for the unplanned. And it's not, don't do it because you don't care or anything. But because it's how Sagittarius feels safe enough to stay. I mean, I mean, I don't need less freedom. I just kind of just need you to know that I'm gonna come back to you. And I don't need everything just mapped out. I just be needing to know I'm not the only one that's thinking ahead. Sagittarius and Virgo don't fight about the plan. They fight about whether it's safe enough to stay who they are. And still have somebody to stick around. If you're a Sagittarius or a Virgo and you just felt personally attacked. Tag each other. Let's see who admits it first. Toxic cycle between Sagittarius and Virgo.
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