Post by @_her.in.you_

10 phrases we quit saying to each other… and it started feeling like the honeymoon phase again 🤍 1. “You should already know.” Now we say: “Can I tell you what I need right now?” 2. “Whatever.” Now we say: “I’m upset, but I need a moment to process it first.” 3. “You always do this.” Now we say: “This keeps hurting me. Can we fix it together?” 4. “It’s not a big deal.” Now we say: “It may feel small to you, but it matters to me.” 5. “I’m fine.” Now we say: “I’m not ready to talk yet, but I’ll come back to you when I’m calmer.” 6. “Why can’t you just be more romantic?” Now we say: “I miss feeling pursued by you.” 7. “I do everything around here.” Now we say: “I’m feeling overwhelmed. Can you take something off my plate?” 8. “Leave me alone.” Now we say: “I need a little space, but we’re okay.” 9. “You never listen to me.” Now we say: “Can you hear me for a minute before trying to solve it?” 10. “We’re not like we used to be.” Now we say: “I miss us. Let’s do something that feels like us again.” The honeymoon phase didn’t come back because life got easier. It came back because we stopped speaking to each other like opponents and started speaking like two people who still really wanted each other. 🤍 Comment “US” if you want part 2 with 10 little phrases that make your relationship feel softer, flirtier and closer again. #relationshiptips #healthyrelationship #couples #relationshipadvice #longtermrelationship