Post by @_her.in.you_

10 phrases I quit saying to my man… now he treats me like his queen. Disclaimer: These only work with men not boys! 1. “You never do anything for me.” Now: “I feel so loved when you take initiative.” 2. “I’ll just do it myself.” Now: “Can you take care of this for me?” 3. “You should already know.” Now: “Can I tell you what would make me feel really loved?” 4. “Whatever, I don’t care.” Now: “Give me a minute to explain what I care properly.” 5. “Why can’t you be more like…” Now: “I really appreciate it when you do ___.” 6. “Do I have to ask for everything?” Now: “It means a lot when you notice what needs doing without me asking.” 7. “You don’t care about me.” Now: “I’m feeling disconnected from you. Can we have some us time?” 8. “Fine.” when I’m clearly not fine Now: “Something bothered me, and I’d rather talk about it than hold it in.” 9. “I don’t need you.” Now: “I can handle things myself, but I love feeling supported by you.” 10. “If you loved me, you would…” Now: “This is something that makes me feel reallyyy cared for.” I stopped expecting him to decode my frustration and started communicating my desires clearly. Soft doesn’t mean silent but saying what I need without attacking the person I love. Comment “queen” if you’re ready to become his queen 👸🏻 #secureattachment #feminineenergy #softlove #relationshiptips