How to flirt if you're bad at flirting with men

@teaguzzles

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The video offers a simple, actionable, and low-risk flirting technique that is easy to understand and implement. The creator's personal anecdotes and relatable "socially stunted" persona likely resonated with viewers seeking dating advice.

Summary

The creator shares a simple flirting method: make eye contact with someone you're interested in, hold it a bit longer than usual, and smile. She explains that this low-risk approach can signal interest and encourage someone to approach you. She shares personal anecdotes of successfully using this method in social settings.

Structure

1Introduction to the flirting method
2Explanation of the method: eye contact and smile
3Testing the method in a bar and concert
4The effectiveness of the method and its low risk
5Concluding thoughts on making eye contact and smiling

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How to flirt if you're bad at flirting with men Any woman who really knows how to flirt swears by this method. Don't take my word for it. Ask any socially competent, beautiful woman you know and she will tell you the same thing that I'm about to tell you. Social Welcome back to social skills for the socially stunted. My credentials are as I was an undesirable lonely child and now I'm really cute and everyone has a crush on me. If you are at a bar, if you are at a concert, if you are at a place where people expect, act and want to talk to each other, use this method. Pick the hot young thing you wanna talk to. Look at them until they make eye contact with you. Hold it a bit too long. They are single and attracted to you. They will look at you again to be like, was she looking at me? Is she looking at me? When you catch their eye again, once again, hold it a bit too long and smile. For a very self confident man that's again single and attracted to you, you might only have to do this twice. If he's less self confident, you might have to do this three or four times. I'm not gonna lie, I ain't scared. And if he is not single or not attracted to you, this will not work. This is very low risk for rejection. I promise. If he's met that single, self confident and attracts you criteria, he will make his way towards you and say, hey, how's your night going? I heard about this method from charismatic women on here on TikTok, and I was like, okay, I'm gonna go do my own field research. So I went out to a bar and field tested this method for you, and the cutest guy came up to me. That time, I was with my friend. I think this method does work a bit better if you're alone, because then the guy is also scared of rejection. It's easier to go up to a single woman. Last Friday, I went out to a concert alone. I tried this method again. I looked at him and smiled twice. Not 10 seconds later, he was right there in front of me. Hey, are you single? Making eye contact and smiling at someone is not a crime, and it's not weird, and it's okay if you do that even if you're ugly. It's not weird and it's not a crime. Okay.

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Transcript

Any woman who really knows how to flirt swears by this method. Don't take my word for it. Ask any socially competent, beautiful woman you know and she will tell you the same thing that I'm about to tell you. Welcome back to social skills for the socially stunted. My credentials are as I was an undesirable lonely child and now I'm really cute and everyone has a crush on me. If you are at a bar, if you are at a concert, if you are at a place where people expect, act and want to talk to each other, use this method. Pick the hot young thing you wanna talk to. Look at them until they make eye contact with you. Hold it a bit too long. They are single and attracted to you. They will look at you again to be like, was she looking at me? Is she looking at me? When you catch their eye again, once again, hold it a bit too long and smile. For a very self confident man that's again single and attracted to you, you might only have to do this twice. If he's less self confident, you might have to do this three or four times. I'm not gonna lie, I ain't scared. And if he is not single or not attracted to you, this will not work. This is very low risk for rejection. I promise. If he's met that single, self confident and attracts you criteria, he will make his way towards you and say, hey, how's your night going? I heard about this method from charismatic women on here on TikTok, and I was like, okay, I'm gonna go do my own field research. So I went out to a bar and field tested this method for you, and the cutest guy came up to me. That time, I was with my friend. I think this method does work a bit better if you're alone, because then the guy is also scared of rejection. It's easier to go up to a single woman. Last Friday, I went out to a concert alone. I tried this method again. I looked at him and smiled twice. Not 10 seconds later, he was right there in front of me. Hey, are you single? Making eye contact and smiling at someone is not a crime, and it's not weird, and it's okay if you do that even if you're ugly. It's not weird and it's not a crime. Okay.