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He has shown you Who he is. Believe it.

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Why it worked

The video resonates with viewers by addressing a common and emotionally charged topic in relationships: recognizing and dealing with negative male behavior. The direct and emphatic delivery, combined with relatable scenarios, creates a strong emotional connection and encourages sharing.

Summary

The speaker advises viewers to recognize and leave relationships where a man exhibits negative behaviors such as anger, drunkenness, or aggression. She emphasizes that these ingrained behaviors will likely escalate rather than improve over time, especially in committed relationships.

Structure

1Recognize negative behaviors (anger, drunkenness, stress).
2Understand these behaviors are ingrained and will likely worsen.
3Trust your intuition when something feels wrong.
4Do not ignore red flags, especially in committed relationships.
5Accept that the person is who they show you they are.

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He has shown you Who he is. Believe it.

Transcript

If you've ever seen a man angry, drunk, upset, or stressed and you do not like what you see. The behavior is not something that you can deal with or it is not acceptable to you. You need to run. You will find out right quick and in a hurry how that man is actually going to act if not worse. It will be worse when you are in a committed relationship or married. If you've seen him drunk and he acts like a fool, he is angry, he is mad, he gets violent if he gets in any of those states when he's stressed, if he gets in any of those states when he's upset with you, you argue and all of that is something that he said, well I didn't mean to do it or something that is, it's something inside of you that doesn't feel right. You need to trust that feeling, okay? That man's behaviors will only escalate as he becomes more comfortable and committed to you. He's not going to change. These behaviors are ingrained in him. This is not something that is going to stop. It is going to get worse. Please believe me this is the truest thing I've ever said on this app. If a man is stressed, drunk, upset, and he gets angry with you, if he gets violent with you, if he does the silent treatment, if he does anything that is in any way offensive or hurtful, if he starts naming you, all of those things will escalate. Will get worse. He's not going to change. He's not going to get better. That man is who he is and he has shown you who he is. Believe it when he shows you these things. Stop letting things slide and then later being like, you said you showed me who he was and I continued on that. He showed you who he was and you continued on that. Mmm. Bye bye.