i under communicate with my husband

i under communicate with my husband i under communicate with my husband, and I always have. Women are always asking me, how did you communicate that you're not gonna go 50 fifty? How did you communicate that he should be a provider? By the way, I'm not financially dependent on him, but he does pay all of the bills. And how did you communicate this and that? And the truth is, for like 99% of things, I really didn't communicate anything to him. As women, we are sold, you know, healthy communication, and you can't expect him to read your mind. But honestly, if you really wanna end up with a man that you are largely compatible with and you don't have to overly communicate with, the less you communicate, the better. Let him be who he is and you decide if it's enough for you. If he doesn't take you out on dates enough, then break up with him. The thing is, at the end of the day, the more that you ask a man to do for you, it's It's something he didn't really wanna do for you in the beginning in the first place. And that's where resentment in a lot of relationships. Well, so this isn't me saying that we never communicate or we hate talking to each other, you know, it's literally the opposite. There so little like "communication" going on, which is. Communication, a lot of it is like begging, begging your partner to be better. A lot of communication is saying the same thing and going in circles again and again and again, and, you know, we don't have that. So it leaves a lot of room for connection and romance. And a lot of what we spend our time talking about is connection. It's romance, it's our dreams, it's our goals, it's our hopes, it's you know, etcetera, etcetera, etcetera. Anything but overly communicating about anyone subject