WE DON'T

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The video likely resonated due to its relatable discussion of relationship boundaries and personal independence, framed within a Christian context that appeals to a specific audience. The direct and assertive tone, combined with the topic of navigating social interactions, likely sparked engagement and discussion.

Summary

The speaker explains her personal boundaries regarding communication with the opposite sex, emphasizing that she would never put herself in a situation that could be misconstrued as inappropriate, especially as a woman. She contrasts this with how she would handle needing a ride, by calling her husband or a married couple, rather than someone else.

Structure

1Setting boundaries with the opposite sex
2Avoiding group chats with others
3Husband as the primary contact
4Needing a ride home
5Asking husband or married couple for help
6Avoiding appearance of impropriety

On-screen text

WE DON'T THE OPPOSITE SEX OTHER IN A THERE'S JUST NOTHING SAY TO ME HUSBAND US IN A CHAT OR YOU FOR EXAMPLE IF I STAY AFTER LATE AT CHURCH AND MY HUSBAND RAN HOME OR SOMETHING UP WE DON'T GOT A CAR ASK MY BROTHER IN CHRIST TO HOME I'MMA CALL MY YO COME BACK OR I'M GONNA ASK A SISTER CAN YOU OR I'M GONNA ASK A MARRIED COUPLE CAN YOU BUT NEVER PUT MYSELF IN A SITUATION ESPECIALLY BEING THE WOMAN AND THIS IS AGAIN WOMAN WHO WAS DON'T NEED NO STICK UP FOR I WOULD NEVER A SITUATION NO. TO GIVE THE APPEARANCE OF EVIL EVEN IF I'M NOT DOING EVIL

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Why I NEVER text other men. Boundaries or insecurity? Let’s debate. #tiktokgrowthchallenge #boundaries #marriagetips #christiancouples #loyal

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Transcript

WE DON'T text the opposite sex. We don't put each other in a group chat. There's just nothing that you can say to me or need to say to me that you can't say to my husband. So like, throw us in a chat or you, for example, if I stay after late at church and my husband ran home or something. We don't got a car. I'm not gonna ask my brother in Christ to, like, pick me up. I'm gonna call my husband. Yo, come back and get me or I'm gonna ask a sister, can you? Or I'm gonna ask a married couple, hey, can you? But I would never put myself in a situation, especially being the woman and this is again, woman who was don't need no stick up for. I can stick up for myself. I would never a situation no, to give the appearance of evil, even if I'm not doing evil.