I do not talk to people about things that they have not talked to me about.

I do not talk to people about things that they have not talked to me about. For example, if you have not talked to me about your partner, your relationship, your husband, your wife, whatever, if you have not talked to me about that, I'm not going to go asking like, so oh, tell me about your, or what's up with your man, or what's up with your girl? Like, I'm not that type of person. I will literally talk to you about everything under the sun outside of what you haven't shared because I assume that if someone does not talk to me about something, or they don't hint around at it, or they don't like, it doesn't bounce, come up in conversation, I assume that that is something that's off limits until it comes up. You know what I'm saying? Especially as a service provider, like you learn that people usually, if you create a comforting and safe environment, people want to talk to you. They don't mind talking to you, but if you, I find it to be quite invasive, or a person not having good reading the room skills when they ask you thing questions about things that you haven't even opened up that door or window about. You know, because one thing about me, I'm going to spin you and we're going to go right back talking about you. Like, don't come asking me nothing too personal because I'm going to flip it right back on you, unless we have that relationship and we've already talked about it. Like, for example, this is just in general, hypothetical. Like, if I've already talked to you about a relationship or some old stuff, like I don't know, like if I've already talked to you about that, I don't mind if you ask me about it because I already made it known that I'm okay with us talking about that. Or if I've shared with you how much I made, or if I talk to you about my streams of income, like if I've already opened up that window and that door, I assume that you assume that it's okay to talk about, or it's okay for you to revisit that. You know what I'm saying? But I'm not the type of person to ask people questions about things that they haven't talked to me with me. I just don't, you know? And I know that not everybody's a monitoring spirit, but for me, I just genuinely don't care about what other people got going on unless they bring it to me. You know, bring it to my front desk first. What y'all think? I don't know.