Post by @mightyyyymouse

Respectfully, if you have not parented when you could barely function, I do not want your advice. Ever made breakfast with shaking hands? Answered “why are you sad” with a lie and a smile? Sat in the school pickup line crying, then wiped your face before they got in? Then don’t tell me how healing should look. Some of us didn’t get to fall apart in private. We healed in the hallway. In front of little eyes that were watching everything. No retreat. No silence. No day off from being somebody’s whole world. And the armchair experts want to talk about “doing the work.” I WAS the work. While packing lunches. Here’s what nobody claps for. Healing in front of your kids isn’t the broken version of healing. It’s the advanced class. They didn’t just watch you struggle. They watched you GET UP. That’s the inheritance. One day at a time. One bite at a time. Send this to a parent who’s rebuilding with an audience. And if you’re trying to heal while coparenting with the person who broke you, message me FREEDOM and I’ll show you the blueprint. It is NOT your fault. And God bless. #Love #coparent #narcissist #viral #healing