Cheating is Sawab

cheating on your muslim wife is sawab because the quran says do nikkah with women of your choosing in the twos 3s and four anything you do outside of the house is none of her flipping business you're chatting up a girl you're chatting up a girl that you're gonna do the cat with them you have help for them you were not born to serve a wife and this is what we're calling Imams these day no wonder there's so many people leaving islam and everyone else trashing it can you even blame them and he is actually making a mockery of that title i feel like it should be revoked from him i watched the whole 8 minutes of his little lecture so you don't have to he was basically saying that it's okay for a husband to go out and get second without telling the first one because that's his haqq and his role is to spread Islam so he should have as many families as he can and basically cheating is sawab as if he's forgetting the fact that the prophet literally said the best of you are the ones that are best to their wives and i don't think deceiving her behind her back is exactly being the best person and apparently what a guy does is absolutely none of his wife's business and he can be chatting up girls for nikkah and that's completely okay verse in the Quran that says that women have equal rights over their husband i don't get this whole mindset of all you only have to provide the financial bare necessities like just say you hate her and if you hate her don't marry her and trap her in a loveless marriage